The Solution for Educated Black Women Who Want to Get Married and Stay Married: Seriously Consider Dating Some White Boys.

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I went to a funeral today for a cousin's husband who died suddenly from a heart attack. Both in their fifties and her first marriage, my cousin was … [Read more...]

New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to Date Interracially.


One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who've probably heard from one loud … [Read more...]

Feast Your Eyes Friday: Danai Gurira Is a Beautiful Black Woman Walking

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With skin the tone of dark chocolate and a smile that radiates quiet confidence how can you not be enthralled by the lovely Danai Jekesai Gurira? I … [Read more...]

Up for Discussion: “Are White Men the New Black?”


Oh...this post is gonna make some GAT-DL folks mad. But since when did that EVER stop us? My dearest Kola Boof tagged me in one of the many … [Read more...]

Black Women Need Men Like Cory Alexander Haywood Like a Fish Needs a Bicycle.

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#InterracialRelationshipsAre4BlackMen. At least that's what Cory Alexander Haywood would like for us to believe, because hell, only black men, in … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Colin Kaepernick Can Tackle Me Anyday of the Week

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They say you a girl looks for the type of man that reminds her of her father. Well, my father Big Jessie was, big, standing at 6'2 so tall men have … [Read more...]

What Your Typical Black Woman Means When She Says, “Get Me A White Man!”

Having run an interracial dating website for the past three years, I can't add up how many times I've heard that phrase. "GET ME A WHITE MAN," as if … [Read more...]

Photos of the Day: Twinsies!


Last September when me and The Hubster took a trip to his old stomping ground in Beverly Hills, I ran into a woman I couldn't take my eyes off of. She … [Read more...]

The Scandal: Is Newlywed Kerry Washington Expecting?!

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This just in! Bronx born Kerry Washington and new husband, Nnamdi Asomugha, are currently expecting their first child. The internet is about to … [Read more...]

Being Discerning versus Being Judgemental


Being Discerning This is sort of a rambling post. I just read an excellent article on Psychology Today called "Don't be Judgemental, Be Discerning". … [Read more...]

One Letter Writer’s Experience Being the Only Black Girl and NOT Being ‘Invisible.’


There's very few letters I get that move me to immediate action, but this one did. Once you read it you'll understand why. I bolded the moral of this … [Read more...]