“Hump Day” Special: Kelly Slater Might Cause You to Get Wet

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Hmmpf.......... You see what I did right there? I may have outdone myself this time. You might have thought I was trying to imply something else!? Get … [Read more...]

“Love @ First Click: The Ultimate Guide to Online Dating,” a Book Review

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Horror stories about online dating abound on the internet, but it doesn't have to be that way. If you date smart, you shouldn't find online dating to … [Read more...]

Swirling and Marriage: Tricia and Peter

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Oh look at Tricia and Peter of San Francisco.  What a beautiful bride and handsome groom.  Can you get more basic than a natural but glam style … [Read more...]

The Solution for Educated Black Women Who Want to Get Married and Stay Married: Seriously Consider Dating Some White Boys.

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I went to a funeral today for a cousin's husband who died suddenly from a heart attack. Both in their fifties and her first marriage, my cousin was … [Read more...]

New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to Date Interracially.


One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who've probably heard from one loud … [Read more...]

Feast Your Eyes Friday: Danai Gurira Is a Beautiful Black Woman Walking

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With skin the tone of dark chocolate and a smile that radiates quiet confidence how can you not be enthralled by the lovely Danai Jekesai Gurira? I … [Read more...]

Up for Discussion: “Are White Men the New Black?”


Oh...this post is gonna make some GAT-DL folks mad. But since when did that EVER stop us? My dearest Kola Boof tagged me in one of the many … [Read more...]

Black Women Need Men Like Cory Alexander Haywood Like a Fish Needs a Bicycle.

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#InterracialRelationshipsAre4BlackMen. At least that's what Cory Alexander Haywood would like for us to believe, because hell, only black men, in … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Colin Kaepernick Can Tackle Me Anyday of the Week

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They say you a girl looks for the type of man that reminds her of her father. Well, my father Big Jessie was, big, standing at 6'2 so tall men have … [Read more...]

What Your Typical Black Woman Means When She Says, “Get Me A White Man!”

Having run an interracial dating website for the past three years, I can't add up how many times I've heard that phrase. "GET ME A WHITE MAN," as if … [Read more...]

Photos of the Day: Twinsies!


Last September when me and The Hubster took a trip to his old stomping ground in Beverly Hills, I ran into a woman I couldn't take my eyes off of. She … [Read more...]