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Top Dating Sites for Women Who Want to Marry Internationally (or Nationally)
It is a full time job looking for a mate ladies. That may mean contacting ten to 15 men a day for each site. If they are interested, they will respond and take the lead. Do your research on a country where you would not mind living and go from there.
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Notes About the Bus Driver with the Killer Uppercut: “Men Are People Too”
For the passed few days, everyone has been speculating about the woman receiving the, “FINISH HIM!!” uppercut. But what about the man who was, hit and spit on?
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A Black Gay Man Reads This Blog. Find Out What He Thinks.
Even black gay men have hesitations about dating white guys. You won’t want to scroll over this one!
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“Macho” Little Black Girls: The Anti-Femininity War on Black Women
Note: For the purpose of this article, I’m dealing with a specifically observed issue that has nothing to do with “butch” lesbianism in black women or non-black women. What I’m talking about is not an outgrowth of self-identified sexuality, sexual expression, or a conscious decision by the individual to move away from gender norms and form their own identity. This post is on something ENTIRELY different.
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Fresh Press: Red States Top List for Online Daters Looking for Interracial Love
According to InterracialDating.com, 10 of the top 20 states in most demand for online interracial dating services are historically red states.
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Matthew Hussey Tackles BB&W Question of the Week: “How Do I Get a Guy to Commit?”
But before you feast your eyes on Matthew again, we need to take care of a little housekeeping.
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Bloggers Continue to Take Jabs at Black Women Who Prefer Interracial Dating
Black women catch so much flack for seeking interracial relationships. Now black bloggers are targeting K. Michelle and her unapologetic preference for white men.
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We’re Living in a Brave New Media World: Elle Varner, “I Don’t Care” Video Tells OUR Truth.
This video displays three important themes with respect to interracial dating. Can you spot them?
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“It’s Cool If You Date White Men, But….”: Why is the GAT-DL Trying to Regulate Black Woman Who Date Interracially?
Pro-interracial websites has become the GAT-DL’s new favorite whipping toy. Various bloggers across the web cluck their tongues on how and which manner is acceptable for black women to swirl. Toni takes a serious look at what this new gaslighting tactic is all about.
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Why Can’t Some Black Women Put Their Interests Above Black Men?
The truth is “good” is subjective. “Good” is a word used so loosely, any black man with a pulse and a functioning penis may find himself on the right side of the word in the eyes of a black woman who doesn’t know any better.
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Are Black Women and Asian Men Finally Getting Together?
Turns out interracial unions between black women and Asian men aren’t a recent development. Take a look at these vintage photos and see for yourself.
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LMU Book Signing Full of Young, Black Women and Fathers Concerned for Their Daughters
Besides completely selling out of books, a couple things happened that reinforced the necessity for me to continue to nag young college girls to maximize ALL their dating options and not just hang out in the dorms painting each other’s toenails on Friday night. Also had a poignant moment with a black father who is struggling with the possibility of having a non-black son-in law.
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EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part I (The Journey of a White Guy Dating Interracially in ‘The D’)
BB&W’s very own ‘EarthJeff’ shares his experiences as an interracially-dating tenderfoot.
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Rainbeau Spots a Girl Who’s Never Swirled, Too Shy To Speak Up But…
Remember Josh, the shy guy I mentioned on my Atlanta recap post yesterday would spotted a gorgeous girl who came to our event who never dated interracially? Well, she must have made quite an impression.
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Terry O’Quinn and Vanessa Williams Make Devilish (But Boring) Swirl Couple in “666 Park Avenue”
The interracial marriage in this show is just “meh” for me compared to the overall storyline.
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Question of the Week: “Is My Weight Keeping Me Out of the Interracial Dating Game?”
I decided to do the question of the week on location at the Georgian Terrace Hotel in Atlanta. Amber Nicole Smiley, an actress and resident, spoke with me frankly about some black women’s resistance to loose weight to score higher in the dating game.
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Shy Interracial Daters: Are You Wasting Your Time Being a “Pillar of Salt” Woman?
“These are pillars of salt who stay stuck right where they are, in that detrimental mindset. Most will die having never married. Oddly enough, a well-seasoned POS will show younger black women how to repeat this flawed thinking, thereby perpetuating a nasty and unfair cycle.”
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