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119 Five Reasons You’re NOT Ready to Swirl

Five Reasons You’re NOT Ready to Swirl

If you recognize yourself, you might want to rethink why you’re even here.


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89 EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part IV, “The Look”

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part IV, “The Look”

“I enjoy the looks that we get from people in public as we hold hands, as I have my arm around Bee, when I rub her shoulders or back, or when I kiss the back of her head. One person out of every 10 gives an “Awww, isn’t that sweet?” look. On the other hand, nine out of 10 just give “The Look” of shock, surprise, or disgust. “


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200 “White Men Best Natural Allies in Battle to Counter Negative Misconceptions of Black Women,” Says Oakland Rainbeau

“White Men Best Natural Allies in Battle to Counter Negative Misconceptions of Black Women,” Says Oakland Rainbeau

From “Paul in Oakland”l–”From a personal perspective, I have recently looked beyond myth and stereotype and have discovered that BW are incredible, remarkable and beautiful. Yet, as a group, BW are too often physically abused, disrespected, socially limited and under-appreciated. Beauty is meant to be appreciated. It is a crime the beauty of BW has been made socially invisible to a large segment of our culture — and even to them. To the extent I failed to perceive this beauty in the past, my bad.”


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13 Ready to Join the Convent? Nine Tips to Make Dating Easier.

Ready to Join the Convent? Nine Tips to Make Dating Easier.

Before you throw in the towel and give up dating altogether, take inventory of what’s not working. Take a look at SwirlQueen’s tips…


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37 EarthJeff’s “Swirling on Planet Earth Part III”: The Kids

EarthJeff’s “Swirling on Planet Earth Part III”: The Kids

EarthJeff has met Bee’s kids. Find out how the reaction has been.


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16 Top Dating Sites for Women Who Want to Marry Internationally (or Nationally)

Top Dating Sites for Women Who Want to Marry Internationally (or Nationally)

It is a full time job looking for a mate ladies. That may mean contacting ten to 15 men a day for each site. If they are interested, they will respond and take the lead. Do your research on a country where you would not mind living and go from there.


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117 A Black Gay Man Reads This Blog. Find Out What He Thinks.

A Black Gay Man Reads This Blog. Find Out What He Thinks.

Even black gay men have hesitations about dating white guys. You won’t want to scroll over this one!


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24 EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 2 “The First Date”

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 2 “The First Date”

Find out how EarthJeff’s dating life is like, swirling in “The D!”


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64 We’re Living in a Brave New Media World: Elle Varner, “I Don’t Care” Video Tells OUR Truth.

We’re Living in a Brave New Media World: Elle Varner, “I Don’t Care” Video Tells OUR Truth.

This video displays three important themes with respect to interracial dating. Can you spot them?


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83 LMU Book Signing Full of Young, Black Women and Fathers Concerned for Their Daughters

LMU Book Signing Full of Young, Black Women and Fathers Concerned for Their Daughters

Besides completely selling out of books, a couple things happened that reinforced the necessity for me to continue to nag young college girls to maximize ALL their dating options and not just hang out in the dorms painting each other’s toenails on Friday night. Also had a poignant moment with a black father who is struggling with the possibility of having a non-black son-in law.


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34 EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part I (The Journey of a White Guy Dating Interracially in ‘The D’)

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part I (The Journey of a White Guy Dating Interracially in ‘The D’)

BB&W’s very own ‘EarthJeff’ shares his experiences as an interracially-dating tenderfoot.


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71 Rainbeau Spots a Girl Who’s Never Swirled, Too Shy To Speak Up But…

Rainbeau Spots a Girl Who’s Never Swirled, Too Shy To Speak Up But…

Remember Josh, the shy guy I mentioned on my Atlanta recap post yesterday would spotted a gorgeous girl who came to our event who never dated interracially? Well, she must have made quite an impression.


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112 Question of the Week: “Is My Weight Keeping Me Out of the Interracial Dating Game?”

Question of the Week: “Is My Weight Keeping Me Out of the Interracial Dating Game?”

I decided to do the question of the week on location at the Georgian Terrace Hotel in Atlanta. Amber Nicole Smiley, an actress and resident, spoke with me frankly about some black women’s resistance to loose weight to score higher in the dating game.


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12 Niala’s 19th Birthday Bash in London!!

Niala’s 19th Birthday Bash in London!!

This is where I realized that the British dance A LOT differently than Americans. For a good hour, My friends and I were under the impression we were in a gay club. Because if we had been back in the states, guys would already be trying to grab us from behind. In the US, if I guy isn’t dancing with a girl, he will just hang out on the outskirts until he finds one. But here, guys had no problem dancing with each other.


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28 An Open Letter To My Hunny on Our First Anniversary

An Open Letter To My Hunny on Our First Anniversary

“How one whole year has come and gone is absolutely beyond me. Time speeds by around us so quickly it seems like twelve months have zoomed by in half the time, but it seems as if this has been my reality for so much longer. I can hardly remember what it’s like to not have you in my life.”


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