Leona’s Love Quest Part XXVI- Bruised but not Broken


  Sweet Jesus, the last six weeks of my life have been exasperating! Once I returned from St. Louis I had only 5 days to pack up my belongings … [Read more...]

Anthony Robinson, Founder of iloveblackwomen.net, speaks on the controversy surrounding his new dating site

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Since Mr. Anthony Robinson announced that he was starting a dating site for black women and men (of all races/ethnicities) who were interested in … [Read more...]

The Verdict is In: All Black Women MUST Consider Swirling.

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Longtime Newsweek writer, Ellis Cose might just have stepped in a big old pile of doo-doo. Finally, an educated BLACK MAN has joined the chorus with … [Read more...]

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 12 – Random Musings

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    So... time for just some random musings of a wonderful relationship that just keeps rolling along... Bee and I went to a drive-in … [Read more...]

Swirling and Music – Lillie McCloud

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   Lillie McCloud Just who is the beautiful bombshell that got Simon Cowell on his feet in praise?  Why it's new diva on the scene Lillie … [Read more...]

Older Latin Man Wants Younger Black Woman…Should He Go For It?

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Here's the question. Meet me in the comments section for your take. Christelyn, I think this is not just one single question, I think I am … [Read more...]

Video: Matthew Hussey Schools You On How to Meet 10 Guys a Week


I can't tell you how many stories I get on email and via our fan page from women who want to meet quality men but don't or won't do the "work" it … [Read more...]

New POF Survey Supports What I’ve Been Saying: Where You Live Can Determine Your Love-Life Success


If you live in California, turns out that living near the water gives you better relationship prospects than living inland, according to a survey by … [Read more...]

Smiling is Only the Beginning…Other Get-the-Guy Moves You Should Be Trying


If you're planning to go to happy hour tonight on the slim chance you might meet Mr. Potential, you probably already know that you can't be hiding … [Read more...]

QOTW: “Should a Woman Ever Play Down Her Accomplishments to Attract a Man?”

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I got this question from a pretty successful friend of mine, and it took me a while to answer because I wanted to make sure I wasn't coming from a … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XXV- My May-December Summer Romance

I’ve got good news and bad news. The good news is (drumroll please) I finally got a full-time permanent job in my hometown of Philadelphia, the city … [Read more...]

Dominic Ripoli: “Interracial” is the Wrong Word

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By Dominic Ripoli I have loved black women since I have had the know-how of sexual preference. Which if we are all honest with ourselves was at a … [Read more...]

My Favorite Swirling Cities


I have lived in some beautiful cities most of which were great swirling cities within the US and visited several outside of our borders. I would like … [Read more...]

Ever Been Too Embarrassed to Go Out with Your Rainbeau?


Robin Thicke is straight ratchet. He says in an interview with Howard Stern that he smokes weed all day long. With a kid. Not to be all judge-y … [Read more...]

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 11 – The “three finger, three second” relationships rule

  Now that I am becoming SO experienced in relationship matters (quit rolling your eyes, that was said “tongue-in-cheek”)….  I want to share … [Read more...]

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The Exotic Okey Doke: How Black Women Got Tricked Out Of Sexy


This post was published on July 26, 2013 by Toni. Things quickly got out of hand in the comment section, derailing into talking about women-friendly … [Read more...]