13 Years Since I Cried in a Room…Back Where My “Guess Who” Moment Went Awry

For those swirled up couples about to meet the parents, Tuesday night starts the final countdown. Some of you are feeling like you might do something … [Read more...]


Monday Punday 13

Monday-Punday #13 SirLoin knows that a good pun is its own reword. 453 Two boll weevils grew up in South Carolina; one went to … [Read more...]


Book Review: The Cuckoo’s Calling

  I recently finished reading the The Cuckoo's Calling by Robert Galbraith/J. K. Rowling No this is not a … [Read more...]


Chef Bob: Old Fashioned Cornbread Dressing

This recipe comes from a true Southerner, my late wife Shirley. She doesn't fuss over her turkey and doesn't bake her dressing in the bird; instead, … [Read more...]


“Swirling Catfish?” One Writer Wonders If Her Online Romance is the Real Thing

The writer titled this letter, "I Think I May Have Lost Him For Good." Dear Mrs. Karazin, Hey. I just found out about your site, and I have a … [Read more...]


Blogalicious 5 Gives Influencers of Color a Leg Up

Meet Stacey Ferguson, (aka Justice Fergie), the founder of Blogalicious, a boutique convention aimed at bringing a little color and flavor to the … [Read more...]


My Take on the Abysmal Marriage Stats…It’s STILL Worth It.

There's been a lot of not-so-great news about the declining marriage rates, plus news that you can no longer snag Mr. Big whilst working as his … [Read more...]


Love Gingers? For Your Viewing Pleasure…

Yesterday me and my brood went apple picking, and I'm still recovering from the hay fever. Lovely apples though. And for you young girls, there was … [Read more...]


Monday-Punday #6

Monday-Punday #6 Ahhh ... now I've got you in my power ... (evil chuckle!!!) ... helpless, while I dig up my literary slime-encrusted puns and force … [Read more...]

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Why We Wear Blue? September is Prostate Cancer Awareness Month

   Why We Wear Blue? Husbands. Fathers. Brothers. Uncles. Partners. Friends. Co-Workers. Sons.  They are the reasons we Wear BLUE. September is … [Read more...]


Stuff I Like: Wen Fall Apple Spice

I know a lot of you naturalistas and relaxed heads love ya'll some WEN products, so when the folks there sent me a stash of their seasonal formula, … [Read more...]


Reality TV Star Evelyn Lozada on Why She Married an Abuser: “I Just Wanted to Be Married”

Now I know that many of the BB&W regulars HATE reality TV shows featuring black women who aren't afraid to turn on the ratchet--namely, shows like … [Read more...]


Thank the Heavens For Alternatives for the Upcoming Cold Season…

  As the last vestiges of summer release that last death hacks, I'm left a bit melancholy. Not because the warm, sunny Southern California … [Read more...]