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Atlanta Recap, In Pit-chas!

My Atlanta trip was probably one of the BEST, was THE BEST trip on the SWIRLING book tour thus far. I got to go to the CNN center NOT as a … [Read more...]


Attention Atlanta Peeps! Join Me For No-Holds-Barred Discussion About Black Women and Relationships!

If you don't live in Atlanta, I'm so sorry you'll be missing this. Because on September 28, we're holding a NEKKID discussion about what relationship … [Read more...]


Ladies, It Looks Like We’ve Got Some Allies…!

Last night's SWIRLING event in Brooklyn was by far the largest we've had so far. My agent says that there were about 160 people there, so woo … [Read more...]


“Swirling” Review By a GASP!! Black Man!!

I'm a little neurotic about checking the Amazon rankings for SWIRLING, mainly because most writers are EXTREMELY neurotic. But I just so happened to … [Read more...]

Book Club Girls

“Swirling” Made it in theGrio’s Top Summer Reading Picks!

Here's what theGrio has to say about "Swirling" It seems there are guides for everything these days. Thinking of mixing it up this summer, but don’t … [Read more...]

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Black Women Need to Start “Swirling Into Reality” Says Kola Boof

“Swirl Into Reality” By Kola Boof “Swirling”—a social term that refers to the recent interracial dating boom in America is now a crucially important … [Read more...]

Leimert Park Book Fair Authors Reception

Calling All BB&W Los Angeles Folks: Come See Me & Janice Talk SWIRLING at the Leimert Park Book Festival!!

This is my first time attending the Leimert Park Book Festival, but this is a big deal. I'm pinching myself that Janice and I will be part of the … [Read more...]

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“Swirling” Isn’t Just for the Ladies: Guys are Loving It Too!

When Janice and I started writing SWIRLING, we basically had black women in mind, and the relationship dynamics interracial and intercultural … [Read more...]


‘Swirling’ Featured on…ESSENCE!!

Miracle of miracles, Jesus loves me and all that jazz. News of Swirling came out today, Loving Day, on...wait for it...wait for … [Read more...]


Take a Listen: My Inteview with Yolanda Shoshana of Women’s Radio

Haven't heard it yet? She and I talk SWIRLING, of course, and why black women often feel like they need permission to date out. Listen … [Read more...]

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Our Own Kimberly Jesse Interviews George Tillman Future Director of SWIRLING Movie

Sheesh, it's a small world. My buddy Kimberly Jesse, a mainstay around Hollywood's elite, interviewed George Tillman Jr., co-founder of State Street … [Read more...]

Amazon stats for SWIRLING at 3:30 PM today. Keep in mind though, thes number fluctuate like my moods do once a month.

In Case You Missed It: SWIRLING on the Tom Joyner Morning Show

Just in case you missed me in the lion's den... Actually, I had a pretty good time. Jacque Reid is an excellent interviewer and kept the children … [Read more...]

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Me on the Tom Joyner Morning Show! Plus…

So I'm gonna need all of you all go get some holy water and sprinkle it in my general direction (I live in California), because tomorrow morning (5:15 … [Read more...]