Archive for the ‘Black Women’s Improvement Project (BWIP)’ Category

4 The Holidays Are Upon Us. Do You Know How to be a Gracious Hostess or Guest?

The Holidays Are Upon Us. Do You Know How to be a Gracious Hostess or Guest?

The holiday season is again upon us and during this season many of us will either be hosting a fabulous party or two or the guest of one. Whether you are the guest or the host/hostess, being gracious is the key to having a good time and enjoying the festivities. Regardless on what side of the table you stand consider the following suggestions for smooth flowing festivities.


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50 Black Women vs. Black Women: Why Can’t We All Just Get Along?

Black Women vs. Black Women: Why Can’t We All Just Get Along?

Vivica A. Fox versus Crystal Wright on BET’s Don’t Sleep once again depicts Black women in constant competition with one another. Political debate aside, both women made fools of themselves.


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178 Black Femininity: Who Decides What?

Black Femininity: Who Decides What?

I maintain that black femininity is under attack. The question is asked, “Well, what is black femininity?” The answer as far as I’m concerned is femininity in a woman who is black. But of course that’s far too simplistic an answer for such a complex issue….or is it?


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56 “Just Ignore It” Isn’t a Solution for Abusive Behavior

“Just Ignore It” Isn’t a Solution for Abusive Behavior

October is Domestic Violence Awareness month. Tracy Renee Jones explains why “just ignoring” blatant abuse is never a solution.


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98 Brenda’s Rebuttal to Bloggers Who Take Jabs at Black Women Who Prefer Interracial Dating

Brenda’s Rebuttal to Bloggers Who Take Jabs at Black Women Who Prefer Interracial Dating

“We on sites like this one want better than misery. We are not dumb, we have eyes and we know what we have been through and what so many of our fellow black women are going through. We question the reasons why and attempt to set a course of action to live full and happy lives on our own terms. We want no parts of the grand delusion that others attempt to sell to us. We know better.”


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29 Etiquette 101: The Art of Paying a Compliment

Etiquette 101: The Art of Paying a Compliment

Not only does paying a good compliment reflect good breeding and proper etiquette, studies show it’s sometimes just as good as cold, hard cash.


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61 Attention: I Am Not A Slave And Neither Are You….

Attention: I Am Not A Slave And Neither Are You….

First and foremost, please spare me the conspiracy theories, the abstract philosophies, or anything that tries to put shackles around my arms and legs in the year 2012. I am an American. And last time I checked, the period in the United States where it was perfectly legal to own black women as slaves is over.


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5 Travelista Teri Schools Us on the Correct Way to Pronounce Wine

Travelista Teri Schools Us on the Correct Way to Pronounce Wine

How many times have you been out on a dinner date, looked at the wine list, couldn’t pronounce anything, so just order the vodka? No? Just me?


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25 BB&W Exclusive: Sexy at Sixty, Author Wendy Ida Talks About Her Escape from Blackistan and More!

BB&W Exclusive: Sexy at Sixty, Author Wendy Ida Talks About Her Escape from Blackistan and More!

Without even knowing it, Wendy Ida is a BWE warrior. At 60-years old, she’s living her best life–beautiful and in the best shape of her life, happily married with thriving career as a best selling author. And she has a message just for the ladies at BB&W.


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126 Beware the Terriorism of ‘Blackistan!’

Beware the Terriorism of ‘Blackistan!’

Yes; ‘Blackistan’ is a real place. It’s in just about every city in the U.S.


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127 Etiquette 101: Graciousness in Competition

Etiquette 101: Graciousness in Competition

On the national stage, black women must “represent,” not with hair, but with a gracious and refined attitude, ESPECIALLY when it sucks.


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9 Etiquette 101: 9 Tips for a more polished appearance at social gatherings

Etiquette 101: 9 Tips for a more polished appearance at social gatherings

I have learned by experience that because people are always watching you and making internal judgments, it is wise to be aware of your outward presentation. The little things can send a big message.


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134 Opinion: “You think you BETTER than us?”  As a matter of fact yes I do.

Opinion: “You think you BETTER than us?” As a matter of fact yes I do.

“What is this love affair that many black women have with dysfunction and misery? So dedicated to this non-sense that they will not only do anything to defend it, they will attack any woman with resentment and hostility who seeks out more positive alternatives.”


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19 Deborrah Cooper Writes Open Letter to Taffi Dollar About Her Complicitness During Daughter’s Beating

Deborrah Cooper Writes Open Letter to Taffi Dollar About Her Complicitness During Daughter’s Beating

“Let’s just get to the point: What are you doing, Taffi? Why are you protecting Creflo and allowing your daughters to be condemned by the world as belligerent, wild, liars, troublemakers and tools of Satan?”


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74 She’s Moving On: Race Woman No More

She’s Moving On: Race Woman No More

“As long as Black women continue to accept their subordinate status in the Black community, Black people will continue their descent into the gutter. Any community that is too foolish to listen to the voices of the women is doomed for failure. I learned the hard way that being a Race Woman has a high price and I cannot afford to do so any longer. No longer will I defend the actions of men who do not give a rat’s ass about women who look like me or my daughters.”


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47 BEWARE of the “Polite” Poisoner

BEWARE of the “Polite” Poisoner

“The polite poisoner comes in the form of “the voice of reason” with a civil manner, a person that offers an “alternate point of view” or in the role of “devil’s advocate”. They do not call you a b*tch or a wh*re or threaten you outright. But if you read between the lines, not only are they insulting your intelligence, it’s very clear that their goal is to use, manipulate, and undermine you.”


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