Glad to See More Non-Black Men Seeing Through the ...

The people who make careers of trashing black women in social media might not have counted on something: Critically thinking men of all races might in... READ MORE

‘Best You’ Campaign Ready to Launch; S...

I’m so excited for 2015, because we’re about to embark on one of the most exciting things we’ve ever done. We’re all going to ... READ MORE

Okay; I’ll Admit It. I’m Feeling Some ...

  *Before you read on, being insulting or unnecessarily cruel in your comments won’t be tolerated, regardless of your hue.* When I heard ab... READ MORE

On Justifying Preferences, and Evolving Preference...

Why Do You Feel You Have to Explain? So much guilt I sense in reading some of the notes BB&W followers have about their preferences for non-black ... READ MORE

BB&W Goes to Vegas in 2015!!

It was only a matter of time before it came to this. All of us, in this community, after years of bonding, will come together in pure “The Hango... READ MORE

Watch Out for ‘Childmen’ With Patholog...

As an observer and participant in social media, I’m privy to a wide range of belief systems. Some are based in reality. Many are so off the mark... READ MORE

Video: Hilarious Memes of 2014. Did Your Favorite ...

I did this just for fun. Okay; how many did I miss? Attach them below!... READ MORE

The Battle of the Azealias: Who Gets Mocked, Who G...

I won’t lie. I don’t listen to modern day hip hop. But you’d pretty much have to be living under a rock if you haven’t heard F... READ MORE

The Critics are Right. I AM “Crazy.”

I don’t always play well with others. I am occasionally prone to outbursts. Doesn’t happen often, but when it does, it’s kinda epic.... READ MORE

Online Friendships Ain’t Real, and Why You S...

Events over the passed 24 hours have resulted in the loss of two people I thought were friends and the dissolution of a business relationship. Of cour... READ MORE

End of the Year, End of the Drama, Part II

People whom I care about have contacted me regarding my last post about my feelings of being dragged into petty Facebook wars and the subsequent gossi... READ MORE

QOTW: Geeky Guys Seeks Girl, but with Strings Atta...

The question… Hello Christelyn, I’m going to be straight forward, how do I grab the attention of a woman as a geeky introvert? By introver... READ MORE

Former Naysayer Takes Health in Her Own Hands and ...

Got this note from a longtime reader and Facebook friend, Amber McDowell a few months ago… I remember a post you wrote about black women needing... READ MORE

Television is STILL Not Ready to Make Black Women ...

If you’ve been around for a while, you might know that I watch soap operas. Not just casually either–my DVR is set to Bold and the Beautif... READ MORE