What Pictures Say About You That You Might Not Lik...

I am an amateur photographer, and I’m told I take a pretty good photo. The most important thing I’ve learned about the art is that each ph... READ MORE

Like What I’m Wearing? Get It for $5 on Haut...

I’ve been getting a lot of people on my Facebook page, raving about the lip color I’m sporting in this photo.   I’ve got news. ... READ MORE

QOTW: Should White Guys Date ‘Sister Soldier...

The question… Getting to know a nice African American woman.  She is terrific – she graduated with honors from an elite liberal arts coll... READ MORE

Another Letter From an Asian Guy…

Got this letter today, and it warmed my heart. Be encouraged! I enjoy reading your site. |I saw your last article on potentially throwing in the towel... READ MORE

Three Camille Rose Natural Products I’ve Tri...

I’ve been wearing my hair out a lot lately, and while I love the volume of my afro, all that handling is causing my ends to become very unhappy.... READ MORE

As Much as I Love Christian Bale, I WON’T Be...

…And neither should you. Hollywood has a looooong history of white-washing biblical stories that originated on or around the continent of Africa... READ MORE

The One Thing that Motivates *Manly* Men…

So I know what you’re thinking. Men are motivated by sex, and that motivation means their not always particularly choosey about whom they knock ... READ MORE

Asian Men…I’m Getting To a Certain Poi...

There’s no doubt that people of color are constantly jockeying for the spot as model minority status in this country, but no such group strives... READ MORE

Join Me and Wes Murphy Tonight on G+: How to Overc...

Getting out there is hard. It’s really hard when you’re shy. And even if you’re not shy, fear of approaching someone and being rejec... READ MORE

The Psychology of Red Lips that Make the Guys Go &...

The holidays are swiftly approaching, and you might be determined to ring out the year by making a connection with a special guy. After all, you’... READ MORE

Tips On How to Approach Black Women with Confidenc...

What better time of year than the holidays to give you the little nudge you need to get the girl you’ve had your eye on.... READ MORE

Gifts for the Nerd In Your Life…

Men may be simple creatures, but they’re sometimes the hardest to buy for. And depending on your guy’s disposition, the old standby shirt ... READ MORE

Charles Barkley: “The Black Community Has a ...

Skimming over news reports this morning, I couldn’t help but click the CNN video of Charles Barkley telling some very uncomfortable truths about... READ MORE

On Selling the Dream of “Good Hair” to...

This post was going to be all about how much I love Mizani’s D’Tangle spray, which works wonders on my second day hair that needs a little... READ MORE