Relationships

QOTW: Are You Keeping Your Interracial Dating Pref...

The question… Hi there,  I am a fan of your website, and lurked for over a year before I decided to participate not long ago.  I hope you don&...
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Carl: A Message to Black Women

Hello everyone. I am a white man who is rather fond of women, I happen to have a strong affinity for black women. Most of you who watch ChristelynR...
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Weddings, Weddings , BB&W Weddings!

Just in time for “Loving Month!!” Well, do we have a treat for all of you. Sit back and relax with something nice to drink because you are...
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QOTW: How to Get the Guy You Want with Confidence,...

I recently got two letters that said the same thing. Hello Chris, I enjoy going on your website. It’s very informative and heartwarming to see s...
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It Takes Kenya Moore for “Clutch” and...

The internet is all abuzz AGAIN, because reality newsmaker, Kenya Moore stated the obvious. There are simply not enough “good black men” f...
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Are Some Black Women Exporting Family Dysfunction ...

I’ve observed a trend in certain interracial relationship circles on Facebook, where a lot of talk has centered around black women interracially...
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“ONE EQUALS ALL?” Do We Lump Folks Unfairly?

By Carrie Thompson After an unforeseen health scare, I’ve had an epiphany: my life is perfect. I’m not exactly where I dreamed I’d be after 6 ye...
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Leona’s Love Quest New Standards for the Modern,...

I broke my lease at my old apartment in Baltimore. It was a sketchy complex where tenants smoked weed on their back porch, played rap music loudly ...
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You Tube Commenter Gives Insight to Fear of Black ...

It’s so wonderful when people tell on themselves, isn’t it? Black men who hate me constantly troll my You Tube channel and come up with th...
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Miss USA Gets the Princess Treatment Marrying Her ...

This is the image little black girls should see…you indeed, CAN be someone’s princess when you grow up! Take a look at the wedding photos ...
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QOTW: Black Woman Frets About Only Wanting an IBM

Got this note today… Hello there, I can’t believe I’m actually doing this… I’ve wanted to write you for a long time!!! S...
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Statuesque: My Intuition Steered Me to the Loves i...

I’ve had the privilege of being surrounded by women with strong intuitive and even psychic abilities all my life, and it took a long time to tap int...
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Coaching: Help a Sister Be Catch the Menz With Fem...

Got this letter from a young girl recently… Dear Christelyn, I love your posts, have read your book and been keeping up with Beyond Black and W...
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QOTW: White Guy Contemplating Leaving Marriage for...

I got this note earlier today… Hi Cristylen, I’m in a predicament and could use your advice. Im a 34 year old white male fairly fit. Im a ...
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