Congrats, David and Iman, for 22 Years of Wedded B...

I remember when it was announced that David Bowie and Iman were a thing, and that that grew into a marriage. It was the early 90’s, and interrac... READ MORE

Interracial Couple Speaks Candidly About Public On...

It’s funny. I never really know who all follows me on my You Tube channel…apparently there’s quite a lot…and when I get a free... READ MORE

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 14 – Th...

  Yes, silly old EarthJeff is back.  Life is not about the destination, it is about the journey.  While I hate quoting Miley Cyrus… it is abo... READ MORE

QOTW: White Woman Asks, “How Can I Get My Fa...

While this question is from a white woman dating a black man, the advice is universal for all interracial combinations. We dedicate an entire chapter ... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: Sexy Men Doing Yoga

I must admit, I like a man that is in tune with his body. Athletes and health conscious individuals are more than likely to have what I desire, namely... READ MORE

And This is Why We Still Talk About Black Men On B...

People often wonder why this site sometimes discusses the relationships black men have with black women. The criticism is often, “If you’v... READ MORE

“Swirlr” Series Finale…Think It&...

There’s a bunch of twists and turns in this one. Take a look and let’s discus!... READ MORE

Letting Matthew Hussey Take on ‘The Question...

I get a lot of letters from women who are asking my advice about a guy they’ve built up really large in their minds. It’s like these women... READ MORE

Pella’s Rebuttal: When Women are the Misogyn...

By Pella I penned my last essay to start a discussion about the entitlement to women’s bodies, which (whoooo) it sure did create a discussion. O... READ MORE

Just in Time for Loving Day, Moguldum Studios Rele...

I have to admit I was SCURRED to tell you guys I was in a new documentary called, The Swirl, only because the parent company, Moguldum Studios, publis... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: You Nasty Boy, You Nasty…&...

They say, “Cleanliness is next to Godliness” but who wants to involve thoughts of the Pearly Gates at this leg of the race? Gym rats, athl... READ MORE

What’s the Message Here? He’ll Marry H...

Okay so we all know that Kanye West and Kim Kardashian FINALLY tied the knot this weekend in Florence, Italy. I for one am glad the whole fiasco is ov... READ MORE

In Defense of Funky Brown Chick’s “Tip...

I see there’s some outrage about a recent article Twanna Hines (aka Funky Brown Chick) wrote to advise non-black men on how to date black women.... READ MORE

Message to the Men: Sometimes Nothing You Do Will ...

Oy vey….. What comes part and parcel of being a friend of mankind is being privy to information that other women aren’t. In addition to th... READ MORE