Black Women Who Seek To Eliminate Themselves ̶...

I feel a mixture of compassion and frustration with black women who are determined to degrade themselves in the pursuit of seeking validation from po... READ MORE

BB&W Special Guest Dishes on Her Experience a...

Race-Based Dating? I’m a black woman who has always been attracted to guys of different races, but growing up in a segregated city in the Midwest, t... READ MORE

Are You An Awkward Black Girl? Here’s Why It...

I’ve been in a lot of discussions with the Bae lately. And it’s nice to have someone around who won’t allow me to get into my ‘... READ MORE

Monday Man Candy: A Picture is Worth a Thousand Wo...

The weather is starting to heat up but since I’m impatient I’ve decided to turn up my our body heat the old fashioned way. Mother nature&#... READ MORE

Eve is On Wedding Countdown to Becoming Mrs. Coope...

Once I was able to wade through the mass of ads and commercials to actually see what’s up, Madame Noire reported that Eve has just celebrated he... READ MORE

Interracial Couples and a Word on Safety: Memphis ...

Got this note this morning: Hi, my name is Gary, and I would like to say first that I find your advice to be very helpful. I am 22 and my fiance Tunis... READ MORE

And the States with the Highest Interracial Marria...

April has been the start of news that I’ve been expecting for over a decade. Interracial marriages are becoming more accepted, more prolific, an... READ MORE

QOTW: White Guy Worried He’s ONLY Attracted ...

Hi Christelyn, I discovered you on Youtube. I enjoy your input on IR dating and would definitely consider you the “expert” on this topic o... READ MORE

“Would a Rainbeau Accept My Special Needs Ch...

Dylan A recent post on my Facebook community page sparked the question: “Would a rainbeau accept my special needs child??  Any single woman wh... READ MORE

QOTW: Interracial Relationships and the “N-W...

Got this note about a month ago. Yes; that’s how far backed up I am. Good Evening Christelyn! Two things I love to do is laugh and listen to mus... READ MORE

Matthew Hussey’s “Unconventional”...

Matthew Hussey, relationship coach and best-selling author of the “Get the Guy” recently did a video he says is a can help you get the guy... READ MORE

A Heartfelt Letter from a White Guy, Wondering How...

I don’t know if you guys realize how much of an impact this site has, and how many notes I get like this on a weekly basis. Men you thought woul... READ MORE

Take a Look at This EBONY News Release and Tell Me...

I got the following news release from the public relations reps over at EBONY magazine. In the May issue of EBONY magazine, the publication partnered ... READ MORE

Essay by the Newest BB&W Blogger: ” The...

Zac is a Facebook friend of mine, quite smart, quite cute, and has a lot of deep thoughts. He hails from Chicago. Hit him up on Facebook here. Zac: &#... READ MORE