Question of the Week: A White Woman Asks, “W...

You'd be surprised at how many notes I get from white women. Not that I'm complaining, it's just...... READ MORE

Question Numero Dos of the Week: How Do I Sack the...

Through my years of reading and learning about the BWE cause, I have come to know that notions like the “Strong Black Woman” or being â�... READ MORE

Question of the Week: Dating After Sexual Assault

**Attention all--I got this question today, and because of the sensitive nature of the post, I brought in a licensed therapist, Tina Tessina, PhD, to ... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “I’m Totally Dem...

I'm thoroughly demoralized with dating both (IR and otherwise). I have never meet a normal, quality person online. I think you're better off meeti... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “Had a Good Date, Why ...

Okay guys. This question is from one of our OWN--she's been with us for over a year, so let's burn some extra brain cells to help her deal with this.... READ MORE

Attention, Lurkers! Open Mic Question of the Week!...

Okay lurkers, here's your chance to get your swirling relationship advice for a slew of folks from the BB&W Crew, plus some rainbeau dudes thrown in f... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “Is This All in My Hea...

This BB&W fan wants input from the sages, so I'm going to let you all have at it!... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “Help 25-Year-Old Rain...

"After hanging out a few times, things got pretty hot and heavy but I made sure to tell him I wanted things to go slow but I don't think he's gotten ... READ MORE

Question of the Week: White Guy Asks, “How C...

So as a WM fairly new to IRR (even though I have had interest in this direction for quite awhile), I have to admit that I never really was very sure h... READ MORE

Question of the Week: Why Am I Invisible To Rainbe...

Hello Cris. I'm enjoying your blog. I'm a little bit discouraged because I have a crush on this guy. We were out last night with som... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “What Do the Lonely Do...

Thanks all the brave ladies who reach out to me with questions on Facebook. Your experiences and the input of the sage folks in the BB&W Crew help hun... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “Help! I’m in Co...

I have been a silent lurker for the past couple of months and I have to say that I am really enjoying your site! I just got reading your Question of t... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “I’m 23 and I...

"I want to start dating, not get married! I've been a good girl, I think I deserve to have a little fun. Sadly, I wouldn't know how to flirt my way ... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “Is it ‘Interrac...

It's rare that I have a man volunteer for HOTW and pose a Question of the Week...is it still a full moon?... READ MORE