Question of the Week

Does Kate Middleton have any black friends?

Written by Nicole J. By now we all know who Catherine, the Duchess of Cambridge, AKA Kate Middleton, is. She’s Queen Consort and has birthed the fut...
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Question of the Week: Why Do You Swirl?

I recently noticed a rather lengthy post from one of our male followers. I thought that I would share his post, with permission. I hope that you enjoy...
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What do you gain from incessant manstroking?

Written by Nicole J. I spend a lot of time online in black women circles. The topics are vast, ranging from hair and makeup to keto recipes to cleanin...
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What tips do you have for a marriage minded 30-som...

I wanted to ask a question about getting back into the dating game after a long hiatus. What’s the best way to start dating again after about a 1 an...
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Colorism: Are We Overplaying It?

Before I get into the meat of this blog, let me address a few things: Do I believe colorism is real? Yes. Do I believe colorism is a problem in the Bl...
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How can I get back in the dating game after a 20-y...

I ran across your post and decided to ask a few questions. My 45th birthday is coming up and I wanted to start dating again. I have been divorced for ...
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How do I date as an introverted black woman?

Thanks for submitting your questions, readers! See below for my response 🙂 I live in Washington, DC.  I have been out of the dating scene for over...
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“If you’re so happy swirling, why do y...

Written by Nicole J. I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even w...
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QOTW: My Daughter’s Father Doesn’t Wan...

I received this note from a fan… Hi Christelyn! I need some advice…So I have a 6 year old daughter & we live in a majority white commu...
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QOTW: “How Can I Help My Mother Get Over Her...

Got this note from a 24 year old concerned daughter… Hi Christelyn, I am currently in Las Vegas with my mom and last night while we were watchin...
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What I Means When a Guy You Just Met Sends You Por...

It happens more than you think, and there’s a reason why some men do this. https://youtu.be/8hHcif6NdUI When a guys sends you porn or inappropri...
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QOTW: Do You Think You Feel Entitled to More Than ...

Multiple kids, but wants a hot single guy. Overweight with man boobs, but wants a Playboy model. Never finished college, wants someone who makes eleve...
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QOTW: “How Can I Support My People in an Int...

The note… I’m a 27y/o stay at home wife/new mom, I’ve been subscribed to your channel for a few years now. I am married to a Ukraini...
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BB&W Success! Here’s What Happens When ...

Just this morning I got this note, and I smiled from ear to ear. Hello again! First of all I’d like to send a million thank you’d to you a...
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