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He put a ring on it, Now what? Part 2: The Guys sp...

After the overwhelming response from the previous post , I decided to pick the brains of some men and collected their thoughts and feelings about thei...
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Who Da F*ck Did I Think I Am………&...

More artistry from our favorite BB&W poet......
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Brenda55: “Why talk about Black men at all?&...

Why do we ALWAYS have to give the disclaimer that we're not just a bunch of black-man haters??...
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White Man At Odds With Black Wife’s Family O...

I came across this post shared by a member of a private group I belong to on Facebook. She was seeking our thoughts on the issue and I had to chime i...
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Can Women Have It All?

The eternal question......
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Swirling in History Special – Colonial Swirl...

It is no secret that black women have always been desired for marriage by men of all races for centuries. I am always looking for images whether photo...
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Best Natural Hair Invention EVER! The Luxe Therapy...

It's rare that you can come across an invention that is so simple and yet so ingenious as the Luxe Therapy Scalp Soother. Fluff your fro and gently so...
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Do you plan to change your last name when you get ...

Last year a controversial tweet about women changing their last name went zooming around the internet:"Mr. Wrong will compromise your purity and then ...
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What Do We Really Know About Africa?

Blasian love in Africa!!...
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Recognizing the Necessity and Importance of Dark-S...

I was not prepared for the response to the first part of this post. I was not prepared to think of myself according to my skin shade rather than as si...
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Like Bees to Honey: Be Charming…It’s T...

Have you ever been in the company of a person that made you feel instantly at ease? The way you interact with them is almost like you are familiar wit...
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Yet ANOTHER Off Topic Thread!!

You asked, I delivered. OT away!...
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The Ultimate Touché: Blogger Lists Reasons To Dat...

It's rare that I come upon a post that is just so delicious and well-suited for this blog that my fingers literally itch to cut and paste. This is one...
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