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15 Takers, Makers and Shakers

Takers, Makers and Shakers

The only problem is….there is no free stuff. At least there is no welfare program that I qualify for, nor have I qualified for, or rather, my inability to ‘established need’ so that I may qualify for their programs, and its been this way for the duration of my time spent as a single mother.


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13 My Birthday: Part Too

My Birthday: Part Too

Part II or Tracy Renee Jones’ emotional conversation with her estranged birth mother.


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31 Mammy, the Mule and Equally Yoked: Observations of Black Female Gender Identity

Mammy, the Mule and Equally Yoked: Observations of Black Female Gender Identity

To continue the conversation regarding the issues we see displayed by certain females of the Black Community I decided to dissect a few contributing factors that may have led us here.


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18 My Birthday, Part Won.

My Birthday, Part Won.

Our beautiful, poetic and brilliant Tracy Renee Jones Recounts her recent reunion with her birth mother. Get out the tissues…


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56 “Just Ignore It” Isn’t a Solution for Abusive Behavior

“Just Ignore It” Isn’t a Solution for Abusive Behavior

October is Domestic Violence Awareness month. Tracy Renee Jones explains why “just ignoring” blatant abuse is never a solution.


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13 Politics for Lazy And/Or Dumb People Brought to You By the Good People of Sallie Mae

Politics for Lazy And/Or Dumb People Brought to You By the Good People of Sallie Mae

The air is rife with the stench of poli-tricks, and sometimes I prefer to read things on my own rather than allow a news broadcaster to inform me of HOW I should feel about a situation rather than providing me details of the situation. The Republicans are beating down political progress by voting against nearly every bill that makes its way into the Senate. The links to some bills are included, so feel free to read at your own leisure and come to your own conclusion.


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106 Does Good Sex Matter…and If So How Much?

Does Good Sex Matter…and If So How Much?

How important is sex………..? And when does it become the deal breaker….?


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130 Proud to Be Black Y’all….But Not Necessarily: The Bi-Racial Conflict

Proud to Be Black Y’all….But Not Necessarily: The Bi-Racial Conflict

A complicated and unique facet of being bi-racial is that we’re all a part of at least two different races and/or cultures yet, depending on who we’re most closest to, is who we come to identify with.


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68 The Secret Sex Lives of Teenagers: Of Hidden Pearls and the Smell of Sweet Roses

The Secret Sex Lives of Teenagers: Of Hidden Pearls and the Smell of Sweet Roses

As women of color, we must ask ourselves, why does society fear budding sexuality? Sexual development goes hand in hand with walking upright, learning to make decisions and other milestones we prepare young people for, yet we ignore this.


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105 Come Hither: Bees in the Trap (So He’s Checking Me Out…Now What Do I Do!?)

Come Hither: Bees in the Trap (So He’s Checking Me Out…Now What Do I Do!?)

If you read the first part of my little ‘how to’ on being a man magnet diva, you already learned a few new tricks meant to catch the eye of any red blooded male. Now that you’ve got the attention of a prospect, or several, what do you do next?


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6 TRJ on, “No Need For Permission: Because Sometimes You Have To Remind White Folks…”

TRJ on, “No Need For Permission: Because Sometimes You Have To Remind White Folks…”

“When someone wants you to be less than what you are only so they can THINK they’re better, you have a duty to your family and yourself to be all that you are. You are free to prove them wrong, no one is better than you. We’re all the same flesh and blood.”


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17 Watch Those Potholes While on Your Way to Greener Pastures

Watch Those Potholes While on Your Way to Greener Pastures

I’ve been swirling since first grade and a boy chasing harlot for about as long. Surely there’s something here for the respectable ladies of BB&W to learn from an enigma such as I.


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15 Baby…..Momma…..July 18, 1990

Baby…..Momma…..July 18, 1990

Sometimes, we need to look at the other side of things. I’m so grateful to know Tracy Renee Jones. She’s a soul-full soul. She thinks deeply. She loves deeply. She helps me UNDERSTAND. Happy birthday to Tracy’s precious child. –Christelyn


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7 Entrepreneurial Uses for Social Media: Why the B. Gold Team Are No Followers

Entrepreneurial Uses for Social Media: Why the B. Gold Team Are No Followers

“I had to make my own living and my own opportunity! But I made it! Don’t sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them!”
- Madam C.J. Walker


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