Love It! Couple I Interviewed for Loving Day 2014 Tied the Knot!!

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I just love it when this happens, and it happens a lot. Last year, courtesy of online dating site, DateWhoYouWant.com, I was able to attend the … [Read more...]

The Unfair ‘Options’ Media Message: What Do These Two Magazine Covers Tell You?

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As a former public relations executive, I can tell you without any doubt that the media sends us messages--messages that we expect, messages that … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Wrestling with the Remarkable that is Roman Reigns

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Oh, you kids are so, so spoiled. I feed you Man Candy each and every Monday, yet you scream for more various and different kinds. It's like your … [Read more...]

(Bonus) QOTW: Black Women, Multiple Children, and Interracial Dating.

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Writer: Hey my name is "Sue" I'm a black female live in St.Louis Mo I have had bad relationship with black men so I decided to date white men my last … [Read more...]

QOTW: White Guy, 51, Ready to Get His Swirl On…

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The question: Just wanted to say thank you for your advice on fyooz for non-black men on dating or even just letting a black woman know that I'm … [Read more...]

Open Thread: Reader Questions Her Commitment to ‘Black Love’

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Some people wonder why this blog continues to talk about black men in reference to black women dating interracially. It would seem at the surface, … [Read more...]

“Im a Negro Bed Wench,” and Other Things I Learned Since Marrying My Husband

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Written by The Peacock Bride I'm a sell out. I'm a Negro Bed Wench. I'm an Uncle Tom. Yup...How did I find this out? Like most things, I've found out … [Read more...]

“A Beautiful Burden” One Man’s Commentary on Managing Cultural Differences

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By "Zac Onbothsides"   Ok. We’ve established that there’s an attraction, we’ve even talked about the awkwardness of expressing it,  or … [Read more...]

That Awkward Moment When Numbskulls Assume Your Biracial Baby Isn’t Yours…

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Last night, my husband Sean was holding our 16-month-old daughter Maya as we were boarding a flight from BWI to MCO. As we stepped onto the plane, one … [Read more...]

Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so … [Read more...]