Are You An Awkward Black Girl? Here’s Why It’s a Good Thing

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I've been in a lot of discussions with the Bae lately. And it's nice to have someone around who won't allow me to get into my 'ish' where I pick at … [Read more...]

Monday Man Candy: A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

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The weather is starting to heat up but since I'm impatient I've decided to turn up my our body heat the old fashioned way. Mother nature...... PRAISE … [Read more...]

Eve is On Wedding Countdown to Becoming Mrs. Cooper!

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Once I was able to wade through the mass of ads and commercials to actually see what's up, Madame Noire reported that Eve has just celebrated her … [Read more...]

Interracial Couples and a Word on Safety: Memphis Couple Needs Our Advice.


Got this note this morning: Hi, my name is Gary, and I would like to say first that I find your advice to be very helpful. I am 22 and my fiance … [Read more...]

And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…


April has been the start of news that I've been expecting for over a decade. Interracial marriages are becoming more accepted, more prolific, and it … [Read more...]

QOTW: White Guy Worried He’s ONLY Attracted to Black Women. Here’s My Take.

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Hi Christelyn, I discovered you on Youtube. I enjoy your input on IR dating and would definitely consider you the "expert" on this topic on the … [Read more...]

“Would a Rainbeau Accept My Special Needs Child?”

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Dylan A recent post on my Facebook community page sparked the question: "Would a rainbeau accept my special needs child??  Any single woman who loves … [Read more...]

QOTW: Interracial Relationships and the “N-Word”


Got this note about a month ago. Yes; that's how far backed up I am. Good Evening Christelyn! Two things I love to do is laugh and listen to … [Read more...]

Matthew Hussey’s “Unconventional” 9 Steps on How to Get the Guy You Want

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Matthew Hussey, relationship coach and best-selling author of the "Get the Guy" recently did a video he says is a can help you get the guy you want in … [Read more...]

A Heartfelt Letter from a White Guy, Wondering How He Can Approach Black Women. Have At It, Ladies.

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I don't know if you guys realize how much of an impact this site has, and how many notes I get like this on a weekly basis. Men you thought would … [Read more...]

Take a Look at This EBONY News Release and Tell Me What’s Wrong.

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I got the following news release from the public relations reps over at EBONY magazine. In the May issue of EBONY magazine, the publication partnered … [Read more...]