Question of the Week: “How Do I Get Over My Married Boyfriend?”

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Dear Mrs. Karazin,   I have been hesitant to write to you mainly because I didn’t know where to begin. Secondly, I doubt you will have the time to … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “How Do I Support My Boyfriend During Divorce and Custody Drama?”

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This question comes from BB&W's very own, "R. Kamaria": I really love my boyfriend. He is one of the most caring, loving and sweet human beings … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Help! I Dont Like What I See in the Mirror!”

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Got this note, and it really struck a nerve with me... I wanted to write this message earlier, but I was too emotional. I am a huge fan of the … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Self-Proclaimed “Redneck” in Love with Caribbean Queen, Scared Senseless.

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For some strange, horrid, and unfathomable reason, this beautiful letter of outreach has lingered in my Facebook inbox for over a year. Once I began … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Twenty-Something Law Student Parched in a Swirl Desert

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Dear Christelyn,      I am a frequent reader of your blog and was able to read one of your latest posts regarding a book review on the Defining … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: On Dating Asian Men, Demanding Someone Christian, and Improvising Race on Online Profiles.

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Okay ladies:   Here is my question... (A little background).  I am an african american professional (doctor).   I am 32 year old.  I am … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Shy Girl Wants to Confront College Crush

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Here's the question I received: Dear Christelyn,I am an introverted , somewhat shy, Black  girl interested in interracial dating. I am a freshman in … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “He Never Called, But Made Out with Me at a Party. What Gives?”

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Here's the question... Hiiiiiii! I stumbled upon your blog one day by accident and LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE it. You made me way more … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Why Do Men Give Such Mixed Signals?”

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A reader wrote in with a question that left me scratching my head, so I brought in the heavy artillery! [See below] "I am a 24 year old student … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Pro-Black Girl Feels Conflicted About Interracial Dating

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i am a young African American female and i am a big avocate for back empowerment and inspiring my community to do and become better. id get the black … [Read more...]

College Girl Asks, “Why Do I Always Have to Be the Wing Woman?”

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Hi Christelyn, My hands are actually shaking as I've finally found the guts to write to you!  My name is "D" and I've never commented on your blog … [Read more...]