QOTW: “My Boyfriend Has Never Witnessed Raci...

The Question: Hello: My name is “T.” I got your email from a your YouTube video: Should Black Women Marry Up. I am a black woman in an in... READ MORE

Stuff You Should Know About Your Online Dating Pro...

  Before I go into this, I just have to give an FYI…I did the following profile critique to use as an example, so please…don’t ... READ MORE

QOTW: White Guy Only Wants Dark, Thin Black Girls....

Got this note from “Mark” Hi Christelyn, I’m a big fan of yours and I really enjoy watching your videos, partly because you’re so attr... READ MORE

QOTW: Are You Keeping Your Interracial Dating Pref...

The question… Hi there,  I am a fan of your website, and lurked for over a year before I decided to participate not long ago.  I hope you don&... READ MORE

QOTW: Black Woman Frets About Only Wanting an IBM

Got this note today… Hello there, I can’t believe I’m actually doing this… I’ve wanted to write you for a long time!!! S... READ MORE

QOTW: Asian Man Asks, “Why Wouldn’t a ...

I wonder if the organizers of those studies that put Asian men and black women as the most unattractive and undateable knew of the psychological damag... READ MORE

QOTW: Texting Vs. Face to Face Contact…Which...

Got this note from a real cutie…I’m going to put his photo up here. Poor Bambi tho…deer looking like, “Why?! WHYYYYY??????... READ MORE

QOTW: Are There Any Subjects Off Limits On An Inte...

The question… Hi Christelyn, I’ve been lurking on your site and your Youtube channel for a couple of weeks now (I know, shame on me lol).�... READ MORE

QOTW: Hispanic Man Hesitant to Approach Black Wome...

The Question: “Hey Christelyn just wanted some advice on how to approach black women i’m hispanic but i am mixed with white/american india... READ MORE

QOTW: Featuring ‘Maxi Me,’ Discussing ...

Brought in heavy reinforcements on this! Here’s the question: “I’m 16 years old and I’ve never even had a boyfriend before, so... READ MORE

QOTW: “Should I Continue Dating Someone Who ...

From Alexa: Christelyn, I’ve been following your page for quite some time and I was wondering if you could give me some insight on how to overco... READ MORE

QOTW: Interracial Dating in an Asian Country

Got this note a while back… “hi- i luv your work on implementing interracial relationships i am an international student, an african livi... READ MORE

QOTW: Twenty-Something I.T. Girl’s Swirling ...

Got this message today from a fan… Here is my question for you and your readers. I am a 22 black female from the suburbs of New York who just gr... READ MORE

Young Girl Needs Our Guidance: 15 Year-Old-Girl, O...

Got this note from a girl last night… Hi Christelyn, My name is “Sammy” (not her real name). I recently subscribed to your channel. ... READ MORE