Is Marriage Only For The Rich?

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No, it's not only for the rich. One might think so after reading this article in the Atlantic. Gone are the Cinderella days when a poor or working … [Read more...]

QOTW: Her First Interracial Relationship, Long Distance

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I'm 20 years old and a college student. I recently went on vacation and ended up meeting this amazing guy. We are opposites on the outside and a … [Read more...]

Black Women, Swirling, and Self-Sabotage


Saturday I got the kick-ass pleasure of attending the Atlanta premier of My Last Day Without You, starring Nicole Beharie (Sleepy Hollow, anyone?) and … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XXVI- Bruised but not Broken


  Sweet Jesus, the last six weeks of my life have been exasperating! Once I returned from St. Louis I had only 5 days to pack up my belongings … [Read more...]

Anthony Robinson, Founder of, speaks on the controversy surrounding his new dating site

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Since Mr. Anthony Robinson announced that he was starting a dating site for black women and men (of all races/ethnicities) who were interested in … [Read more...]

The Verdict is In: All Black Women MUST Consider Swirling.

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Longtime Newsweek writer, Ellis Cose might just have stepped in a big old pile of doo-doo. Finally, an educated BLACK MAN has joined the chorus with … [Read more...]

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 12 – Random Musings

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    So... time for just some random musings of a wonderful relationship that just keeps rolling along... Bee and I went to a drive-in … [Read more...]

Swirling and Music – Lillie McCloud

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   Lillie McCloud Just who is the beautiful bombshell that got Simon Cowell on his feet in praise?  Why it's new diva on the scene Lillie … [Read more...]

Older Latin Man Wants Younger Black Woman…Should He Go For It?

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Here's the question. Meet me in the comments section for your take. Christelyn, I think this is not just one single question, I think I am … [Read more...]

Video: Matthew Hussey Schools You On How to Meet 10 Guys a Week


I can't tell you how many stories I get on email and via our fan page from women who want to meet quality men but don't or won't do the "work" it … [Read more...]