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How to date, mate and relate. Mixing race, culture and creed.
Some of the very women we are attracted to and want to love are placing restrictions of how we express that love and how we talk about our attraction? What gives? Why can’t I say you’re beautiful?
Ready for a trip to bizarro land? Hop onboard the crazy sex scandal express…conductor General Petraeus has a seat waiting for you…
The case of Glenda Moore and the downing death of her two young boys reminds mixed race families have to choose their neighbors and neighborhoods wisely.
**Preemptive Strike: I DARE SOMEBODY COME IN HERE AND TELL ME I HATE BLACK MEN BECAUSE I’VE PUBLISHED THE REPORT. DON’T COME UP IN HERE BRAGGING ABOUT ALL THE GOOD BLACK MEN YOU KNOW. GO TO HELL, BLOOD CLOT.**
Who else here thinks risking your life to meet some ridiculous beauty FAD is about as dumb as you can get? You don’t see men doing this crazy crap to get a date. They’ll go to the gym, maybe get some hair implants and get their teeth fixed, but that’s about it. What’s up with us??
“I got the ‘Welcome to New York’ speech twice. Thank you, but I was welcomed by the drunkard who shoved me into a concrete wall and countless homeless men pissing and masturbating on the train a long time ago. No matter what, this is not okay and no woman should be subjected to that.”
In the latest we-already-knew-that-news,” A third of families headed by single mothers are in poverty, and they are four times more likely than married-couple families to be poor. The disparity is on the rise, and as the number of single mothers grows, analysts are debating if more marriages could mean less poverty.”
Tamera Mowry was attacked last night on Twitter because she dared complain about the interruptions Joe Biden made during the vice presidential debates. She wasn’t just attacked on her politics, but with her choice in husbands.
A bus driver uppercuts a teenager after she throws the first punch. Was he justified in saying “If you wanna act like a man, I’ll treat you like a man”?
New York City’s controversial “stop and frisk” policy is questioned when one 17-year-old records the harassment and threats of violence from the police. But some say neighborhoods support it to reduce crime.
Black women catch so much flack for seeking interracial relationships. Now black bloggers are targeting K. Michelle and her unapologetic preference for white men.
Pro-interracial websites has become the GAT-DL’s new favorite whipping toy. Various bloggers across the web cluck their tongues on how and which manner is acceptable for black women to swirl. Toni takes a serious look at what this new gaslighting tactic is all about.
As discussed in the previous blog post, Pillars of Salt – What a Waste of Time! We saw the example of Lot’s wife in the Bible. Turning to look back, she became a pillar of salt. She simply could not resist the deadly draw of her community and could not let go of the ties that bound her to it – not even to save her own life. Today, I want to address Pillars of Salt Extreme Edition (POS-EE). These are women who for their own lives will not leave dangerous neighborhoods and environments. This extreme and dire situation prompted an open appeal to them.
It seems like every week there’s a new anti-swirling article on so-called black women’s interest blogs, and I have to wonder why. I mean, we’re so trivial…right? Why all the attention?
“Yes, negrettes! For $4,000 we not only will degrade you, but your entire race and gender! We know you’ll whore yourself for any little bit of money so come on, you know you want to email me at Caraamericanfamily@gmail.com.”