Sunday Morning Coffee Talk: Non-College Educated Rainbeaus Need Not Apply?

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Still having flashbacks of Pink Shirt Dude as I write this, but if that bonehead did one good thing, he's inspired a whole lot of discussion about … [Read more...]

Black People Hijacking Biracials!


My pal, Lorraine Spencer wrote an in-ter-esting Facebook note about Tom Sizemore's 'coming out' about having a black grandfather and mother. The first … [Read more...]

Sunday Morning News Review: NPR on Interracial Marriage–Blacks Picked Last.

Is it just me, or is there a groundswell of news surrounding America's changing marital patterns? Nope. It's not. It's quite the hot topic of … [Read more...]

History of Swirling in the UK…A Boon for Black, African Men?


My pal on Facebook, Dennis Wells sent this program to me to review, and I must say, it's interesting, and extremely biased. Take a … [Read more...]

When ‘The Swirl’ Never Blends: What If Family Never Accepts the Union, Even in Death?


It's amazing the people I meet who read this blog. I'm so humbled by it, and often moved to tears by some of the stories people share with me, like … [Read more...]

New FB Trend: “I Love Black Girls!”

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I'll admit it makes me smile whenever I see a guy wear a T-shirt that says this or post a big pic on his Facebook profile picture that says this loud … [Read more...]

Clint Eastwood and the Evolution of TV Swirling


So Encore on Demand has a bundle of old Clint Eastwood movies in homage of the swagger, gorgeousness, rough-around-the-edges, grisly, gritty eternal … [Read more...]

For the Guys: Seduce Her Mind, Her Body Will Follow!

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I will be the first to admit I spend WAY too much time on Facebook. Judge me if you like, but I "LIKE" it. And plus, that's how I get you all so much … [Read more...]

Breaking ‘Swirling’ News! Gallup Poll Shows Record Approval for Interracial Relationships

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The worm has turned. The wind has changed direction. The GAT-DL has been defeated. Because according to Gallup, which is like, the GOLD STANDARD … [Read more...]

Online Dating Success: E-Harmonizes Alex and Becca!

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To all those of the BB&W Crew who are cynical and discouraged about online dating, take heart. It's not all bad. Alex and Becca (you know her, she's … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Why Do The Women in the ‘Keep It Real’ Crew Care So Much If We Date Rainbeaus?

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No specific person asked this question; it's more like a conglomeration of people wondering out loud why the cuss the 'Keep it Real' crew cares … [Read more...]