#NWNW: Don’t Look for the New Man to Clean Up the Mess.

It's very rare that I get questions that stir my emotions, frustrate me, and make me deeply sad. I just received such a letter from a very young … [Read more...]

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(Bonus) QOTW: Black Women, Multiple Children, and Interracial Dating.

Writer: Hey my name is "Sue" I'm a black female live in St.Louis Mo I have had bad relationship with black men so I decided to date white men my last … [Read more...]

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Unspeakable! New Jersey Reporter Fired for Telling the DAMN TRUTH!

We live in such a crazy time in America, when saying the obvious will literally get you fired and physically and socially ruin you. I know back in … [Read more...]

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One Black Mother’s Heartbreaking Story of Raising Her Son Amongst a Nest of Miscreants Intent on His Ruination

When I read this very personal account from Breukelen Bleu, the founder of the Black Woman Think Tank, I knew I had to share it. So much of the … [Read more...]


Company’s Photo Discrepancy Gives Subtle Message to Black Mothers Versus White Mothers

I've quietly watched a company called Baby K'Tan work to dig itself out of a public relation social media nightmare because of this photo. There are … [Read more...]

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New Music POSITIVE Hip Hop from Arrested Development

Some of you know that I'm friends with Speech Thomas, head of the legendary and iconic Arrested Development. He was a strong supporter of our No … [Read more...]

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Inside the Male Mind: Why Divorced Single Mothers Get a Pass and Why Never-Marrieds Often Don’t

I'm about to get really real in here for a minute, and what I'm about to say is going to offend a lot of people. I understand that. And I need to … [Read more...]

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Hilarious Bedsider PSA’s Addresses the Birth Control Without the Outrage

I was up at the wee hours of the morning last night and saw this commercial... This is brilliant, and I wish it could be shown on the … [Read more...]

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Black Father Gets Racist Hate Mail & Goes Viral…Because He’s Taking CARE OF HIS KIDS!

This story has appeared several times in my Facebook feed. Apparently Black fathers can't do anything right when it comes to their kids. I don't buy … [Read more...]


Some Good News: Study Shows that Black Fathers More Involved with Kids than We Give Credit For.

Okay here's some really good news. A fairly large study was recently reported showing that black fathers who live in the home with their children are … [Read more...]

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You Can’t Blame the Police and Racism for This…Video Showing “How to Raise a Thug 101″

I have always, ALWAYS been for the kids, ya'll. And I just discovered a video of a child...A BABY IN DIAPERS being called a "bitch ass n*gga" by his … [Read more...]

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I Don’t Hate Myself, I Just Hate Ratchetry.

As you might imagine, I get a lot of people accusing me of hating myself because of the nature of my work. Somehow, telling black women they are … [Read more...]


Well THAT Explains a Lot: New Study Reveals Fatherlessness Changes a Child’s Brain Structure

Findings released by the Research Institute of the McGill University Health Center in the journal Cerebral Cortex, have found a link between … [Read more...]