Inside the Male Mind: Why Divorced Single Mothers Get a Pass and Why Never-Marrieds Often Don’t

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I'm about to get really real in here for a minute, and what I'm about to say is going to offend a lot of people. I understand that. And I need to … [Read more...]

Hilarious Bedsider PSA’s Addresses the Birth Control Without the Outrage

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I was up at the wee hours of the morning last night and saw this commercial... This is brilliant, and I wish it could be shown on the … [Read more...]

Black Father Gets Racist Hate Mail & Goes Viral…Because He’s Taking CARE OF HIS KIDS!

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This story has appeared several times in my Facebook feed. Apparently Black fathers can't do anything right when it comes to their kids. I don't buy … [Read more...]

Some Good News: Study Shows that Black Fathers More Involved with Kids than We Give Credit For.

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Okay here's some really good news. A fairly large study was recently reported showing that black fathers who live in the home with their children are … [Read more...]

You Can’t Blame the Police and Racism for This…Video Showing “How to Raise a Thug 101″

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I have always, ALWAYS been for the kids, ya'll. And I just discovered a video of a child...A BABY IN DIAPERS being called a "bitch ass n*gga" by his … [Read more...]

I Don’t Hate Myself, I Just Hate Ratchetry.

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As you might imagine, I get a lot of people accusing me of hating myself because of the nature of my work. Somehow, telling black women they are … [Read more...]

Well THAT Explains a Lot: New Study Reveals Fatherlessness Changes a Child’s Brain Structure

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Findings released by the Research Institute of the McGill University Health Center in the journal Cerebral Cortex, have found a link between … [Read more...]

“Legion of Doom Mothers,” Lead Their Children Like Lambs to Slaughter.

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Last week, a power outage in our area left us with no cable television.  It was a little early for my children's bedtime so I popped in a DVD --  … [Read more...]

OOW Children Are No Mistake, But Stop Projecting Your Ego Onto Your Child.

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One of the most difficult discussions when it comes to the OOW rate among black women is acknowledging that it is a problem. Mainly because black … [Read more...]

Newsflash to The Entitled: Pastors Have the Right of Refusal Blessing Out-of-Wedlock Babies

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Fox 2 News Headlines Before I get into the meat of this issue I want to present a scenario to you. Imagine if you will, a couple attending a strict … [Read more...]

Who Owns a Black Woman’s Womb?

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*gets behind a podium* *clears throat*   Blogmistress, moderators, community regulars, lurkers and guests-   The black … [Read more...]