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Premiering Tonight: “I’m Having Their Baby.” Will You Watch?
Most notable in the line-up are the black women who choose adoption, considering…
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The Chickens Have Come Home to Roost, and Single Mothers Whine About Being the New ‘Whipping Girls’
Now just about everytime news of some sort of program to and least TRY to tackle the single parenthood epidemic, or when yet the 50-11th report comes out to state the obvious that kids suffer from single parent households, here come the writers over yonder whining and crying because they feel attacked.
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My Take on Mayor Bloomberg’s Anti Teen Pregnancy Initiative
Every. Single. Banner. Says. The. Truth. THIS IS THE TRUTH! Why are you mad because Michael Bloomberg co-signs it? This warped thinking is the reason why the black community as a whole stays losing.
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When Hood Boogers Attack, Black Kids Wish They Were White.
Some of you might balk at my language, but if it walks like a beast and talks like a beast, it’s a beast. God help the kids who have to live in this Hell.
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Daniel Patrick Moynihan Predicted the Future of the Black Family But Too Few People Actually Listened
People widely panned the Moynihan Report. But looking at it now, it reads like a Nostradamus quatrain.
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Girl, 13, Plunges to Her Death While Begging Boy to Delete Sex Tape
A 13-year-old child falls to her death begging the boy who taped them having sex to delete the footage.
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Identifying Black Counterproductive Behavior: “Having Babies” Versus “Becoming Mothers”
If we look at the different phrases used to describe the act of bearing and raising children there is a telltale clue to the difference in the way in which Blacks view parenthood versus other groups.
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An Open Letter to Kim Kardashian Regarding Her Preggo News
Hey Kimmie,
I heard you were knocked up a couple days ago when your boo of only eight months, Kanye West, announced that his 5,000+ audience pay homage to his “baby mama.” I’m assuming he gave that title to you, as you are the carrier of the Kanye spawn…
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#NWNW ‘Truce’ with Prominent Social Media Feminists?
Me and prominent writer and prominent social media feminist, Tami Winfrey Harris had a Twitter exchange regarding her article about Shawty Lo in “Clutch.” It’s worth the read, I think. The primary goal of “No Wedding No Womb” was to start a dialogue, and in so doing, begin to affect change. This is a good start.
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Why I don’t call myself a “feminist” (and probably never will…)
“I want no part of any group, system or structure that sells the lie of being equal partners in striving to overcome inequality and oppression while that supposed ally is also standing on my neck.”
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“All My Baby Mamas”…Well, What Do You Expect When You Try to Normalize Dysfunction??
This morning I got wind of yet another ratchety reality show, this one centering on the misadventures of a black male seed-spreader with 10 baby mamas and 11 children. Frankly, I’m surprised it took Hollywood this long to poke fun of and put on display the dysfunction that is rampant in the black community, with fatherless children pissed as hell and black women who think they have no other options for a family than to become brood mares for non-committal partners.
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Would You Give ‘Plan B’ To Your Daughter?
Well, I have to admit I’m shocked at this one. The American Academy of Pediatrics is now recommending that teenagers be given prescriptions for Plan B, an emergency contraceptive that generally reduces the fertilization of egg and sperm with hopes that the measure will reduce teen pregnancy. Would you give it to your daughter?
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How Blackistan Deals with ‘Fast Girls’
Icon Oprah Winfrey was raped by her 19 year old cousin at the age of nine and later abused by a neighbor and an uncle. Renowned author Maya Angelou was raped at seven by her mother’s husband and spent the next five years as a mute. In the midst of having to fight off everyone laying claim to her young body, here comes the females of blackistan who tell her she is at fault for what is happening to her. She is whooped , cussed out and blamed for the black males around her who exercise no self-control. If she is develops faster than the other girls around her, she becomes a prime target for harassment and blame.
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