Got this note from “LB”, a woman who ditched the naysayers and found her true love in Sweden. Here’s her story, in her words…
I found the love of my life in Sweden! OMG! That’s all I can say!!
The brothers and sisters are like umm…:(( and I’m like stop hatin’ cause I’m happy and you guys are CRABBY!
We met on Zoosk and the minute I saw him, I knew, I just knew!!!!! The moment we spoke, we knew! After 24/7 Skype, calls, everything, I WAS ON A PLANE TO SWEDEN…and the moment our eyes met..WE KNEW!!;))) it’s just a love story from start to finish…I’m there on Tuesday and then he’s coming in July, so we KNOW~ We know!! All them haters out there I say this…be happy for others and mind your business! lolol!!! I’ve never met a man so loving so caring, so adorable and who treats me like a friggin queen…a queen…and we get along like bonnie n clyde! So yes, please share!!! I don’t post my personal life on FB anymore as my so called friends are so vicious…but on your forum..yes! yes, please share the love!!:))
I’ve always been open to interracial dating; actually all my life at the disapproval of friends and family…but I didn’t care, I knew my preference was “other” more on the white , only because in my opinion, they treat black women with more respect. I had zero and I mean zero chemistry with the brothers. I lived in Europe for many years and kind of love that “way” of life and the way they treat the sisters… my guy refuses to talk about race cause he’s like wtf..you’re a woman a beautiful woman, I don’t see color I see YOU..and he’s right!! But you know how our people love to press the Bewithyourown.com bullshit…:)) but yeah, I knew the minute I saw him I had to take the chance…so I went with my gut instinct and voila…the man for me!! I’m 46 and he’s 54 and we click like no one’s business!! So it’s 7 months and going strong…kind of talking about “the future”…living in Stockholm, having two homes..:)) so this is heading in the right direction….It’s true love, mature and stable..not the booty, I love your body bullshit that these brothers be putting us through…sorry to sound so ghetto, but had to break it down for you:))
Let the sisters know that there is a mega pool of Fine, Educated, Respectful White Men who love black women NOT because they’re Black, but because they’re BEAUTIFUL AND PRECIOUS! So says my man 24/7!!! Don’t let the Haters discourage you! Be bold and go for yours!!!:)))
It’s time to be bold, ladies. Jump in with both feet!!