What the Cuss?

The Rise of the ‘Bitter Beckys’: “Yes Virginia, There Are Such Things as Haters.

Apparently some folks are joining in the “Nobody wants you, black woman!!” pile on. Take a whiff of this fart bouquet. This Tumbler was created by a disgruntled white girl who wanted to make sure black women didn’t get too high and mighty about Michael Fassbender dating a black woman. AND GET THIS–SHE WAS BANNED FROM LIPSTICK ALLEY!! Boy…you have to be a pretty foul fartcloud to get banned from that den of hellions:

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*I’m posting the link, but I would encourage the reader not to feed the troll with comments. I guarantee it will only serve to give her an orgasm.*

A few intelligent people were able to discern early on that I was merely joking with my racial epithets & that I was morphing into, comically speaking, the Big Bad White Woman Who Is So Jealous Of Those Women Stealing Our Menfolk, but most of you didn’t restrain your emotion for a minute to understand what I was doing.

Repeatedly by black Michael Fassbender fans (& their white sycophants), I & other innocent non-black women were subjected to repeated criticism about our appearance, about our ability to attract white males, & accused multiple times of being racist without a hateful or discriminatory statement appearing in our forum discussions. Yes, we had ONE troll, Anistine/Yasmine Khan, who pretended to be both black & white, mixed race, Jewish, & who knows what else in any other number of boards.

Despite there only being one, we were still subjected to criticism that we were all harboring racist sentiments, even though we were praising non-stop the relationship of Michael Fassbender & Nicole Beharie. What are we supposed to do? Prostrate ourselves before their photos?

It has been obvious for a longtime now that Michael Fassbender, due to his racial preferences rather than his filmwork, has attracted a number of fans who are mainly interested in his romantic life because they share a preference or unhealthy validation-seeking fetish for white men. It is not wrong to point this out. Before threads were deleted, if one were being honest, we witnessed many black girls/women come along who admitted that their self-esteem was boosted by his relationship choices & we had more than a few black female trolls who attempted to shutdown discussions by saying that Fassbender basically doesn’t want anybody besides black women (denigrating his relationships with both white & Asian females), & one even alluded that non-black women shouldn’t even be his fans.

Especially for the white women on the board, we were seen as Klan members by virtue of our skin color alone. If we talked about his past relationships, or repeatedly tried to assure the black females on the board that we didn’t mind that a white man dated a non-white woman, we were repeatedly accused of being jealous, of being racial proprietors, even though the black women there throwing out accusations thought they owned white men.

I’m going to break it down for you again regarding interracial relationships & white women.

1. Most white men prefer white women, as do most people of any race prefer their own race.

2. We do not care that white men might date/marry/or even prefer a non-white woman.

3. We do not sit around wringing out hands in despair about it. I guarantee that if you type it into Google, you’ll find 100X more sites/posts whinging about racial proprietorship coming from black women than anybody else.

4. We don’t write books about it. Go to Amazon & try to find one written by white women about how our men are abandoning us, then try to find one written by a black woman about black men.

5. If anything, we’re more curious when it happens to be a BW & WM, because you rarely see it happen. Unfortunately, for the women in the Michael Fassbender fan community, they’ve turned what should be a colorblind relationship, into a means of increasing their self-esteem. I can’t help but be puzzled by this. Why do they want the attention of their centuries-old oppressor?

And for anyone who reads this & is still upset about the racist things I said, in jest, are you ever going to account for your racist comments against us? For our looks? For our inability to attract our own men? (LOL!) For our inherent deviousness? And for the dismissal of Fassbender’s relationships with both white & Asian women?

At least admit that the only troll you ever saw do this, despite the Chicken Little predictions over the months & dramatic turn of events on Lipstick Alley & Fassinating Fassbender, you only ever had one serious person troll & she turned out to be a hoax.

Maybe you guys are the ones wearing the white sheets after all?

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One quote in particular stood out to me:

“It has been obvious for a longtime now that Michael Fassbender, due to his racial preferences rather than his filmwork, has attracted a number of fans who are mainly interested in his romantic life because they share a preference or unhealthy validation-seeking fetish for white men. It is not wrong to point this out. Before threads were deleted, if one were being honest, we witnessed many black girls/women come along who admitted that their self-esteem was boosted by his relationship”

What the heck is wrong with black women, who have been despised, beaten down, told they are ugly and that they are no more than some thug’s sperm receptacle, and no man in existence could possibly find us attractive getting an ego boost? What’s wrong with giving shine to men of all races, colors and creeds who REJECT these messages and find beauty in our blackness??

So….’Becky,’ say you’re a brunette with a pixie cut, and found out through some fluffy celebrity blog that Robert Pattinson’s first love had brown hair and a bad pixie cut and he’s never gotten over her, you mean to tell me you wouldn’t feel just a teensie, weesie bit proud to be his “type?” GTFOOHWTBS is you form you lips to say you wouldn’t.

Why is it is SO disturbing for people that some black girls and women look at Michael Fassbender and his girlfriend and feel a bit of pride? Why does this piss you off so? Self esteem and self regard do not happen in a vacuum. It comes from seeing, observing, witnessing others validating your beauty and desirability. Ever see that old Twilight Zone episode where everyone on the planet had ugly, malformed faces but the people who were deemed hideous were the hot-looking people?

Yeah…like that. Beauty is recognized and perpetuated through external recognition and positive reinforcement. In short, it feels good to have women who look like you be deemed desirable and lovable. This goes for every human being on the planet. Stop making black women out to be desperate white-men worshipers because they’re cheering on one of their own. Get a life. There’s plenty of white menz left for you, Becky.

Some folks really need to start taking happy pills.

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