Dear Chistelyn,

I am a 20 year-old white male from New York and a junior in college. Since attending University and being exposed to people of varying races and backgrounds I have come to the conclusion that not only am I interested in dating black women, but I honestly can only see myself settling down with and marrying a black woman. As far as women go, I have found that black women are top tier and that they are the only option for me in the wife department. However, despite this goal I can’t deny the fact that technically I am bisexual. I don’t really claim my bisexuality as a part of my image nor do I make it known to people, but I can’t deny that I am very in touch with my feminine side and generally people can tell that I am not completely “straight”. My question for you is: in your experience in the interracial dating world, have you found black women to be attracted to or accepting of a potential mate that is bisexual and or in touch with his feminine side? If you could let me know your thoughts on this I would really appreciate it.

Here’s my take…