Thriving

I Don’t Hate Myself, I Just Hate Ratchetry.

As you might imagine, I get a lot of people accusing me of hating myself because of the nature of my work. Somehow, telling black women they are beaut...
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What is Wrong with the Black Man? (Written by a Bl...

Someone posted a quote from this citation on my You Tube channel and could hardly believe it was written by a Nigerian man. I’m reposting it, kn...
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Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”...

  Dear “Nothing But A Brother” and “I Don’t Date White Guys” black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season a...
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“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will...

I don’t know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring...
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Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women ...

I was thinking since we were talking about the word “desperate” being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain ...
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A Vocation that Gives You the Ticket to Travel Is&...

We talk a lot about how travel can change your outlook and how you see yourself and how others see you. But most jobs won’t allow you to jump up...
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Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate...

This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The”Swirling” book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to...
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Well THAT Explains a Lot: New Study Reveals Father...

Findings released by the Research Institute of the McGill University Health Center in the journal Cerebral Cortex, have found a link between fatherles...
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The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Sh...

I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial weig...
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Video: Kola Boof Speaks Her Truth About “Bla...

Worth the view, I promise. She addresses the treatment of dark-skinned black women by the black community, and explains why she married a white, Jewis...
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“Legion of Doom Mothers,” Lead Their C...

Last week, a power outage in our area left us with no cable television.  It was a little early for my children’s bedtime so I popped in a DVD...
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WTF?! People GLEEFUL Over Our Negative News…...

I won’t provide the link to soul-killing garbage that apparantly indicates that black women are picked last in online dating, because, really...
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Who Should ‘Shut Up’ Again? T...

You have the right to remain silent. In fact, silence can be used to great effect to express having the power in a situation. Passive aggressive indiv...
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Sisters, It is Time to STOP Giving Birth to Men Wh...

In this letter, my use of “you” means you, me, all of us. This letter, sister, is from someone who is sitting, not-so-quietly observing, a...
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