This message needs to be said. As we move out of 2016, we need to take accountability for OUR part in our poor relationship choices. Continuing in dysfunctional behaviors rampant in our own communities is self destructive and NOT a win for us.

Yes; Blackistan is full of pathology, but when we KNOW better, we are NO LONGER INNOCENT. You are going to have to practice good self care and display good critical thinkings skills, because there is NO collective safety net for black women. There really is no “couch for us to crash.”

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