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The New, NEW Black Woman: Fri Forjindam

Fri Forjindam is the brainchild behind what's probably the most beau-ti-ful wedding magazine I've ever seen. Since its founding in 2009, Wedding … [Read more...]


New Feature: “Leona’s Love Quest!”

  Leona’s Love Quest     The Introduction Not long ago, I quit my job. Probably not the smartest move in the middle of a … [Read more...]

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Super Cute Vid! “10 Reasons You Should Date a Black Girl”

Desdemona Liang, aka "Little Bird," posted this on my Facebook wall and asked me to share it. Well, OF COURSE! This little chicita could not be cuter. … [Read more...]

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Question of the Week: Dating After Sexual Assault

**Attention all--I got this question today, and because of the sensitive nature of the post, I brought in a licensed therapist, Tina Tessina, PhD, to … [Read more...]


Anybody Find Love Through Online Gaming or Apps?

It's just something I've been chewing on for awhile. And since February is the commercially-appointed month of luv, I'm curious if there's some unique … [Read more...]

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AT LAST! An Online Dating Site All About Putting a Ring On It!

Just when some of you were ready to pack up your marbles and leave the whole online thing, or at least use your net time playing online games like … [Read more...]


How They Met: Ed and Deidre!

Ed and I met at the skating rink. I remember the first time I saw him I thought he was a nice looking older white man but why is he here with all … [Read more...]

Abiola Abrams at Women's Empowerment Summit

Meditations for the Good Date Fairy? Abiola Abrams Talks with “Spirit Junkie” author, Gabrielle Bernstein

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Swirl Love in the Netherlands: Meet This Newly-Engaged Couple!

What a way to ring in the new year--a proposal from your fancy-schmancy publisher boyfriend. Meet Claudia, 40, newly affianced to Pieter (is that … [Read more...]

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Is Your Career Leading You to a Man Mecca or a Mirage?

Black women are not working where the eligible men are also working. The result: black women have fewer opportunities for 'dating, mating, and … [Read more...]

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Get Over It! Rainbow Men Like Their Women Skinny!

_________________________________________ Blast from the Past! Brought back for our current audience to read & comment on. Originally … [Read more...]

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OMG, Have You Seen “Wedding Nouveau?!”

Wowzers. Sometimes I come upon stuff kinda late, but I simply MUST give kudos, high praise and big ups to Fri Forjindam, founder and editorial … [Read more...]

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BB&W After Dark: So…Your Man Has a Foot Fetish….Now What?!

So you’ve been with your special person for _________(fill in the blank) amount of years/months/weeks and somehow or another its come to your … [Read more...]