Gender Conflict

Fear and Loathing; Interracial Dating When YouR...

By Mamie Mooney For many women, dreams of love, marriage, and babies are a cluster of ever-whirling hormones, romance novels, and childhood fantasies....
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Watch Out for ‘Childmen’ With Patholog...

As an observer and participant in social media, I’m privy to a wide range of belief systems. Some are based in reality. Many are so off the mark...
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Jacque Reid, New York Post, news, media, celebrity, dating, matchmaking, Tom Joyner Morning Show, black men, backlash, swirling, interracial dating, Clutch, interracialdating.com, Young, Black and Fabulous

Black Female-Centered Media is Coming Around to Ou...

Before the New York Post wrote about Jacque Reid’s reversal of her decision to participate in my coaching, I was often the running joke of onlin...
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So…I Got Accosted In Cancun…

I just got back from THE BEST vacation I’ve ever had in Cancun on an all-expenses paid vacation The Hubster won from his job. Being an employee ...
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Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be...

If you haven’t yet read Is Marriage for White People, by professor Ralph Richard Banks, you might want to pick it up. He gives a cogent argument...
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male opinion, street harassment, abuse, violence against women, dialogue, conversation, men, black men, stereotypes, tropes, social issues, culture, perception,

He Said, She Said…A Discussion About Street ...

Editorial by: Howard Tyrone Smith II Video: Christelyn Karazin HE SAID… The murder of Mary “Unique” Spears and countless other women...
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black women, black men, society, culture, perception, stereotypes, tropes, discussion, self hatred, deflection, conversation,

From a Black Man’s Mouth: About All That Hat...

Greetings BB&W, As a strong supporter of your work and what it stands for, I’d like to say something to all the naysaying black men on this ...
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Three men who say they are “good.” Thr...

by Christelyn Karazin My personal Facebook page is often a bastion of spirited debate. I’ll throw out a bomb, and sit back and watch the fallout...
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Wake Up, Black Women! IRR “Permission”...

  By Toni First of all, HEEEEY! I have been gone for awhile, I know. I wish I could write more of these articles, but I have been super busy. Som...
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advice, Youtube, black men, culture, destructive behaviors, children, abandonment, warning, video, dating, single motherhood, pregnancy, fatherless children, casual sex, regrets, young women,

Black Man Admits Hood Dudes Corrupt Black Women...

by Christelyn Karazin Sometimes my You Tube channel is riddled with trolls, but sometimes a few nuggets of teachable moments come through to exemplify...
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And We Wonder Why More Non-Black Men Don’t A...

One of the main challenges I have as an advocate for black women in interracial relationships is that many of my readers say white men just don’...
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UK Girl’s Response to Skinny Pickings for Sw...

Hey there! I’m EmpressNK, a 30 something woman living and working in London. As you can see from my picture, I’m tall (6 feet in flats), and wear ...
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advice from guys, for the guys, dating, relationship, intercultural relationships, diversity, culture, society, conditioning,

To the Guys Ready to Swirl, ” I’m rooting ...

By ‘Zac OnBothSides‘ I’m rooting for you, I really am.  But we need to talk. You’re a white guy like myself and you’ve decided that...
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Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Loo...

Someone on my You Tube channel sent this video to me, and upon looking at the title, I thought it was just another cuss-filled, vitriolic video about ...
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