EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 14 – The Journey Continues


  Yes, silly old EarthJeff is back.  Life is not about the destination, it is about the journey.  While I hate quoting Miley Cyrus… it is … [Read more...]

QOTW: White Woman Asks, “How Can I Get My Family to Accept My Black Boyfriend?”

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While this question is from a white woman dating a black man, the advice is universal for all interracial combinations. We dedicate an entire chapter … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Sexy Men Doing Yoga

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I must admit, I like a man that is in tune with his body. Athletes and health conscious individuals are more than likely to have what I desire, … [Read more...]

And This is Why We Still Talk About Black Men On Beyond Black & White.

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People often wonder why this site sometimes discusses the relationships black men have with black women. The criticism is often, "If you've moved on … [Read more...]

“Swirlr” Series Finale…Think It’s Going to Come Out How You Predicted?

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There's a bunch of twists and turns in this one. Take a look and let's discus! … [Read more...]

Letting Matthew Hussey Take on ‘The Question of the Week’: The Scarcity of Men Does Not Exist

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I get a lot of letters from women who are asking my advice about a guy they've built up really large in their minds. It's like these women are so … [Read more...]

Pella’s Rebuttal: When Women are the Misogynist.

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By Pella I penned my last essay to start a discussion about the entitlement to women's bodies, which (whoooo) it sure did create a discussion. … [Read more...]

Just in Time for Loving Day, Moguldum Studios Releases “The Swirl”

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I have to admit I was SCURRED to tell you guys I was in a new documentary called, The Swirl, only because the parent company, Moguldum Studios, … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: You Nasty Boy, You Nasty……

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They say, "Cleanliness is next to Godliness" but who wants to involve thoughts of the Pearly Gates at this leg of the race? Gym rats, athletes, and … [Read more...]

What’s the Message Here? He’ll Marry His Baby’s Mom If She’s…

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Okay so we all know that Kanye West and Kim Kardashian FINALLY tied the knot this weekend in Florence, Italy. I for one am glad the whole fiasco is … [Read more...]