(Bonus) QOTW: Black Women, Multiple Children, and Interracial Dating.

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Writer: Hey my name is "Sue" I'm a black female live in St.Louis Mo I have had bad relationship with black men so I decided to date white men my last … [Read more...]

QOTW: White Guy, 51, Ready to Get His Swirl On…

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The question: Just wanted to say thank you for your advice on fyooz for non-black men on dating or even just letting a black woman know that I'm … [Read more...]

Open Thread: Reader Questions Her Commitment to ‘Black Love’

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Some people wonder why this blog continues to talk about black men in reference to black women dating interracially. It would seem at the surface, … [Read more...]

Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so … [Read more...]

Open Thread: “How Do I Explain My Preference for Black Women without Sounding Like a Douche?”

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Okay well he didn't say that...exactly. Here's what this 20-something white guy actually wrote... Mrs. Karazin,I'm not ashamed and I make it pretty … [Read more...]

Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black Woman’s Second Choice?”

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First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I'm glad you're listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter from … [Read more...]

QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Relationship-Friendly Pastures?”

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People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at … [Read more...]

QOTW: “How Do I Protect My Girlfriend From Racist Family Members?”

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The question... "Here's my dilemma: To make a long story short, one of my two sisters, my father, and I are the only three in my entire family that … [Read more...]

The Great Debate Between Me and Matthew Hussey: Should You Date at Your Workplace?

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Subjects for the Question of the Week often come in themes. Lately I've gotten a lot of questions for men and women conflicted about starting … [Read more...]

QOTW: Black Father Blames Himself for Daughter’s Interracial Dating Choice

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Here's the question: Dear Christelyn , A very heart breaking issue has arisen in my family because of my dating preferences. A brief history: I … [Read more...]