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0 Help! This QOTW Has Me Stumped!!

Help! This QOTW Has Me Stumped!!

Most of the dating questions I get on this blog are pretty easy for me to address, and for the most part, I’m confident that my advice is solid. But I got a question last week that reminded me of my vow of humility. I’ve always stated that saying, “You don’t know” doesn’t make you less credible, it just shows you’re more honest and have a general aversion to shelling out bullshit so people will think you’re the Moses of whatever cause or plight that comes.


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90 Question of the Week: “My Brother Says He Will Disown Me If I Date White!”

Question of the Week: “My Brother Says He Will Disown Me If I Date White!”

“Hi, I’m a 19 years old and I’m very interesting in swirling I have had interest in white guys before but never really made an attempt at dating them because I figured they don’t date black girls, but right now I have a predicament I really like this guy I think he likes me but some of the black boys tell me that he is just trying to be nice that white guys don’t like black girls, and my brother knows I like this guy and he told me if I date a white guy he is going to disown me I just don’t know what to do. Thank you for listening.”


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47 On Vetting: “How the Heck Do You Do That?!”

On Vetting: “How the Heck Do You Do That?!”

I got this letter a while back and I didn’t answer right away because it’s such an important question, and I just don’t take this stuff lightly.


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19 Question of the Week: Rainbeau Needs Advice on Dating Older Black Women

Question of the Week: Rainbeau Needs Advice on Dating Older Black Women

A 24-year-old rainbeau asks my advice on dating older black women…let the discussions begin!!


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38 Question of the Week: “How Do I Get Over My Married Boyfriend?”

Question of the Week: “How Do I Get Over My Married Boyfriend?”

“I was in a 4 years relationship with a MARRIED man…I traded my self esteem for some shoes and good food? I can’t believe it and I will never forgive myself for being so stupid and I will forever regret it for the rest of my life. I cry everyday and I just wish I could turn back time.”


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64 Question of the Week: Self-Proclaimed “Redneck” in Love with Caribbean Queen, Scared Senseless.

Question of the Week: Self-Proclaimed “Redneck” in Love with Caribbean Queen, Scared Senseless.

“I’m scared myself. My girlfriend is scared for me as well, as she’s dated outside of her race before and has been tempered to the stares that an interracial relationship tends to garner, along with the insults, etc.”


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25 Question of the Week: Twenty-Something Law Student Parched in a Swirl Desert

Question of the Week: Twenty-Something Law Student Parched in a Swirl Desert

She is law school, and is seeing many of her white schoolmates dating, mating and beyond. But there’s only slim pickings for her.


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160 Question of the Week: On Dating Asian Men, Demanding Someone Christian, and Improvising Race on Online Profiles.

Question of the Week: On Dating Asian Men, Demanding Someone Christian, and Improvising Race on Online Profiles.

This 32 year-old doctor is ready to expand her dating options, but there’s a few snags she needs us to work out…


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41 Question of the Week: Shy Girl Wants to Confront College Crush

Question of the Week: Shy Girl Wants to Confront College Crush

This shy girl is steeling herself to approach the rainbeau she’s had her eye on. I tell her to hold the brakes. Here’s why.


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75 Question of the Week: “He Never Called, But Made Out with Me at a Party. What Gives?”

Question of the Week: “He Never Called, But Made Out with Me at a Party. What Gives?”

Take a listen to what me and celebrity relationships expert, Dr. Gilda Carle, have to say about this.


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60 Question of the Week: “Why Do Men Give Such Mixed Signals?”

Question of the Week: “Why Do Men Give Such Mixed Signals?”

A reader wrote in with a question that left me scratching my head, so I brought in the heavy artillery!


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143 Question of the Week: “do you think it’s unnatural to exclusively desire a race other than your own?”

Question of the Week: “do you think it’s unnatural to exclusively desire a race other than your own?”

Her family is putting on the pressure, and it’s not helping that she’s not getting attention with the men she desires.


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39 White Guy Asks, “Am I Dating the Wrong Black Woman?”

White Guy Asks, “Am I Dating the Wrong Black Woman?”

I got this note from someone who reached out to me on Facebook. Here goes…


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56 Question of the Week: “How Do I Deal With Street Harassment?”

Question of the Week: “How Do I Deal With Street Harassment?”

She’s getting harassed at school and at the mall. What recourse does she have?


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