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QOTW: “Help! My White Friends Ask My Black Girlfriend Dumb Questions!”

How many us have felt like you've had to be the ambassador of all black people when you're around people of other races? On guy wrote me, fed up that … [Read more...]

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(Bonus) QOTW: Black Women, Multiple Children, and Interracial Dating.

Writer: Hey my name is "Sue" I'm a black female live in St.Louis Mo I have had bad relationship with black men so I decided to date white men my last … [Read more...]

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QOTW: White Guy, 51, Ready to Get His Swirl On…

The question: Just wanted to say thank you for your advice on fyooz for non-black men on dating or even just letting a black woman know that I'm … [Read more...]

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Open Thread: Reader Questions Her Commitment to ‘Black Love’

Some people wonder why this blog continues to talk about black men in reference to black women dating interracially. It would seem at the surface, … [Read more...]

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Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so … [Read more...]

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Open Thread: “How Do I Explain My Preference for Black Women without Sounding Like a Douche?”

Okay well he didn't say that...exactly. Here's what this 20-something white guy actually wrote... Mrs. Karazin,I'm not ashamed and I make it pretty … [Read more...]

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Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black Woman’s Second Choice?”

First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I'm glad you're listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter from … [Read more...]

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QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Relationship-Friendly Pastures?”

People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at … [Read more...]

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QOTW: “How Do I Protect My Girlfriend From Racist Family Members?”

The question... "Here's my dilemma: To make a long story short, one of my two sisters, my father, and I are the only three in my entire family that … [Read more...]

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The Great Debate Between Me and Matthew Hussey: Should You Date at Your Workplace?

Subjects for the Question of the Week often come in themes. Lately I've gotten a lot of questions for men and women conflicted about starting … [Read more...]

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QOTW: Black Father Blames Himself for Daughter’s Interracial Dating Choice

Here's the question: Dear Christelyn , A very heart breaking issue has arisen in my family because of my dating preferences. A brief history: I … [Read more...]

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QOTW: 16 Year Old Girl Wants to Know Why White Guys Don’t Approach

The question... Hi Christelyn! My name is Brianna and I'm 16 years old and I'm also natural!. I am currently enrolled in a predominately white school … [Read more...]

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Interracial Couples and a Word on Safety: Memphis Couple Needs Our Advice.

Got this note this morning: Hi, my name is Gary, and I would like to say first that I find your advice to be very helpful. I am 22 and my fiance … [Read more...]