Question of the Week: “do you think it’s unnatural to exclusively desire a race other than your own?”


I received this note from "Reluctant Geek Girl," and she needs our help. Dear Christelyn, I am a mid-30s single black woman from NYC.  I've … [Read more...]

White Guy Asks, “Am I Dating the Wrong Black Woman?”


I got this note from someone who reached out to me on Facebook. Here goes: I'm a white male and I've been dating a black female for four months. I … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “How Do I Deal With Street Harassment?”


Dear Chris, I was wondering what your take is on immature men. I am in college, so I don't expect much from most men in their early 20's(not much … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Nobody Wants Me, So Why Should I Bother?”


Dear Blog Owner, The Mammy, the Mule article about BW stereotypes has triggered some feelings in me that I want to express. I am just so … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Why is it Everyone’s Business If Some Black Women Have a Preference for Non-Black Men?


I got this note from a regular reader and I thought it was worth it for all of ya'll to read... Dear Christelyn, Over the past few months I have … [Read more...]

Matthew Hussey Tackles BB&W Question of the Week: “How Do I Get a Guy to Commit?”

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So before I show this video, I thought it would be a good time to do a PSA. I have to do a little hand slapping because I honestly am disappointed how … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Is My Weight Keeping Me Out of the Interracial Dating Game?”


Got this note from a reader.... I have this huge problem and I know that you have the most current insight on the answer. I would love to … [Read more...]

Matthew Hussey Takes on the Question of the Week, Part III


This question came right off the board of Black Women with Other Brothers. Dee Dee Russell asked Matthew how men should deal with people who openly … [Read more...]

Emergency Post for the BB&W Crew: Reader Wants to Go Natural, Mother Threatens to Kick Her Out

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This is by far the most bizarre post I've received so far, but with reports from war-torn Blackistan coming out daily, I can't say I'm surprised. I … [Read more...]

Matthew Hussey Answers the Question of the Week: “Why Do I Keep Attracting Married Men?”

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Thought I'd add a little variety to the QOTW and get my pal Matthew Hussey in on the action. Ladies, please be mindful of your drool--water and … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “My African Wife Is Mistreated By Black Americans. Why?”


Mrs. Karazin,   I recently found your site when I was looking for articles regarding interracial marriage and just general black/white information. … [Read more...]