Question of the Week: “My Brother Says He Will Disown Me If I Date White!”


Hi, I'm a 19 years old and I'm very interesting in swirling I have had interest in white guys before but never really made an attempt at dating them … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “How Do I Avoid the Friend Zone?” and Other Obstables for Finding Love…


Good Afternoon, My name is Niki and let me start off by saying that I love your site. It's just everything. I was wondering if you can give me a … [Read more...]

On Vetting: “How the Heck Do You Do That?!”


I got this letter a while back and I didn't answer right away because it's such an important question, and I just don't take this stuff lightly. Dear … [Read more...]

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Question of the Week: Rainbeau Needs Advice on Dating Older Black Women


Got this note recently... Hello Christelyn! I just wanted to thank you for the Youtube videos that you make. You are so clear and wise about the … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “How Do I Get Over My Married Boyfriend?”

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Dear Mrs. Karazin,   I have been hesitant to write to you mainly because I didn’t know where to begin. Secondly, I doubt you will have the time to … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “How Do I Support My Boyfriend During Divorce and Custody Drama?”

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This question comes from BB&W's very own, "R. Kamaria": I really love my boyfriend. He is one of the most caring, loving and sweet human beings … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Help! I Dont Like What I See in the Mirror!”


Got this note, and it really struck a nerve with me... I wanted to write this message earlier, but I was too emotional. I am a huge fan of the … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Self-Proclaimed “Redneck” in Love with Caribbean Queen, Scared Senseless.


For some strange, horrid, and unfathomable reason, this beautiful letter of outreach has lingered in my Facebook inbox for over a year. Once I began … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Twenty-Something Law Student Parched in a Swirl Desert

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Dear Christelyn,      I am a frequent reader of your blog and was able to read one of your latest posts regarding a book review on the Defining … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: On Dating Asian Men, Demanding Someone Christian, and Improvising Race on Online Profiles.

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Okay ladies:   Here is my question... (A little background).  I am an african american professional (doctor).   I am 32 year old.  I am … [Read more...]