Next week I’ll be 46. And you know what? I’m sooo good with it. I’ve learned so much, and I still have so much more to learn. Here’s 10 Things I’ve learned in my life that have made a huge difference:

*Be brave

*Stop talking yourself out of success. And stop letting others talk you out of it too.

*Make peace with knowing not everyone in the world is going to like you.

*Take calculated risks—except with your body and soul.

*Figure out what drives you—good or bad. Do more good, figure out how to stop the bad.

*Don’t treat your body cheaply. She’ll reward you or punish you as you deserve.

*Don’t let social media fool you. It is impossible to have thousands of close friends. Get off the internet and make some real ones. *Admitting you are wrong doesn’t mean you weak, and it doesn’t mean you’re not worth a damn. Dust off and do better next time.

*I know World Star is juicy, but limit yourself to negativity. You are what you eat—physically AND spiritually.

*Happy people don’t deliberately hurt others. If this is you, seek some help.

One of my biggest accomplishments that I am so proud of is The Pink Pill, an online course course designed specifically for black women. The positive reviews are off the chain, and I would love for you to see it for yourself. If you are a black woman, and any of this resonates, go to GetPinkPill.com.

For my birthday month, I’m offering 50% off the regular price—the lowest the program has an ever will be. I’d love for you to join me on this journey my Pink Pill sisters and I are on. Just use coupon code, JULY50 at checkout.

See you on the other side of 46! xo