#Trending Nail Colors For Fall...

Oxblood made its debut on the runways last fall season to much accolades and applause. We love this moody rich, yet vibrant cousin of burgundy and I h...

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“Getting A Black Man Is The Best A Black Woman Can Do&...

Take a look at how some middle-aged black woman made an attempt to brainwash Jamila's daughter!...

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Dominic Ripoli: “Interracial” is the Wrong Word...

I have loved black women since I have had the know-how of sexual preference. Which if we are all honest with ourselves was at a very young age. I reme...

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Our Sh*t Is Beginning to Stink: Bill O’Reilly Addresse...

The Black blogospere is up in arms again because someone outside of the "black collective" has the nerve to comment on our abysmal 80% out-of-wedlock ...

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Health: Strong Should NOT BE the New Skinny...

Everybody wants six pack abs and arms as strong as Linda Hamilton’s from the Terminators 1 & 2. Is this ok? Or, can we consider this another body i...

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Rethinking Black Reality: One Woman + Her 20 Character Off B...

For those of you who enjoy theater arts and poetry I thought you may find this young woman worthy of your time and attention. Dominique Fishback is a ...

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Living a Better Life – Gratitude for BB&W...

I believe I found BB&W shortly after it launched. At that time, I was in a really, really bad place. Poor dating decisions had taken a serious tol...

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Why Are We So Embarrassed to Admit We Use Vibrators? (NSFW)...

Many of us fight against the curse of Jezebel, as she casts such dark shadows upon black women who desperately want to be preceived as more than just ...

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My Favorite Swirling Cities...

I have lived in some beautiful cities most of which were great swirling cities within the US and visited several outside of our borders. I would like ...

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Damned Fool: Reasons Women Run to Dangerous Men, Even Though...

A few months ago I tried to counsel a young woman in her mid-twenties who told me she wanted me help getting away from a man who is a textbook sociopa...

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Could We Be So Lucky? Chris ‘the GF Beater’ Brow...

Personally I'm not buying it. The album OR his latest tantrum. Chris thinks he's being demonized for one incident, but I assure you it's not just that...

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Do We Have To Get Rid Of The Strong Black Woman?...

Why do so many of us feel that the strong black woman archetype has harmed us? What's so bad about assertiveness or resilience?...

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Ever Been Too Embarrassed to Go Out with Your Rainbeau?...

Ever been too scared to go out in public?...

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Perfect bone-in Prime Rib of Beef with the Mysterious “...

Perfect prime rib is an easy undertaking if you follow a few key steps. The most important is using an accurate digital thermometer. This is the only ...

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Zo-Mi-Gorsh! Oprah’s Mega-Fro on the Cover of “O...

Ladies, it looks like sporting your kinks has become a full-fledged mainstream phenomenon. How are you all feeling about that?...

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PT 1: An Honest Conversation Between You and I…Embraci...

"My main issue is that I'm struggling terribly with trying to reconnect to my sexual side in a healthy way and generally see sex and my overwhelming d...

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Watch Zoe Saldana and Christian Bale in the First Trailer fo...

Zoe Saldana has GOT to be the luckiest Afro-Latina actress in Hollywood right now......

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Video: Fat & Curly Twist Tutorial...

I've gotten a bunch of requests from folks about how I acheived this look. So without further ado......

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QOTW: “I Can’t Stand My Black Girlfriend’s...

Guy loves girl, but hates her "hood" name. Take a look at what I say....

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“Blindian” Love! Best Wedding Video Ever!!...

I ran across this video via our Facebook fan page after Stephanie and Vijay sent me a wedding photo from their recent nuptials on June 21. Someone fou...

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A “Must Download” for the Online Dater…...

afro pic This is me, only...slightly glow-y. My eyes are brighter, my teeth whiter, my face smoother. This is a common technique professional photo...

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EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 11 – The “t...

Now that I am becoming SO experienced in relationship matters (quit rolling your eyes, that was said “tongue-in-cheek”)…. I want to share my ru...

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Iyanla Vanzant: “There is no reason to continue to hav...

It looks like Iyanla Vanzant is a fan of No Wedding No Womb. There's just so much truth in what she's saying, and it echos so much of what we teach, p...

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Fall 2013 Trends: Best of Britain..Plaid, Tweed and Argyle!!...

This fall the fashion is taking the spring trends and dragging them to the dark side....

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Texting Tricks Every Girl Should Know…...

I ran across this video by "Mehow," a self-proclaimed pick-up artist. At first, I was struck at how nerdy and corny this guy looks, but once you get p...

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Stuff I Like: Urban Decay Has Nail Polish!!...

Urban Decay has a nail polish in my favorite shade of purple. Are you all aware of how much I LOVE purple? If not...take a look around. ...

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Orange is the New Black: Are You Watching the New “It&...

My news feed has been going crazy lately and I'm no dummy, how many times must I see "Orange is the New Black" before I caved in and watched. I know t...

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