Executing The Perfect Progressive Renovation...

Every so often, our homes need a facelift. You could be newlyweds putting a personal spin on your first shared place, or you could be redoing the house you bought together 30 years ago. It may be minor or it may be major, but eventually, it will happen. Many homeowners put off a minor one until…

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Saucy IR Reading…”Back to Life” by Wendy C...

It’s a very rare occasion that I can read for pleasure. Because this was work related, I felt less guilty about devouring Back to Life, a spicy ...

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Can We PLEASE Move On From the FEAR of the Black Man’...

Oh my God. If I get another note like this, I just might scream. I have a date with a black girl who came to me at the gym and asked for my number, i ...

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Prince Harry Engaged to Meghan Markle: “I Fell In Love...

Wow…when you know you know! Prince Harry, grandson of Queen Elizabeth, and Meghan Markle, daughter of a black woman from Compton, are set to be ...

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Time To Really Get Honest About Our Weight. #PinkPill...

I remember back in 2010, I wrote my first post about black women, their weight, and their dating options. I didn’t hold back–I was brutall...

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What Happens When Black Women Take the ‘Pink Pill?R...

In case you missed this… https://youtu.be/Exvzxu47m4s...

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Got My Heritage DNA Test Back! Here’s What I Am…...

MyHeritage reached out to me a few months ago and offered me a DNA kit in hopes that I’d report my experience. I was super curious, even though ...

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Black Girl Travel Founder Says Bravo Stole Her Idea for New ...

Fleace Weaver, founder of Black Girl Travel has a bone to pick with Bravo. Apparently, their new show, To Rome For Love, is a hijack of her own work a...

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Carrie: Dating Woes In La La Land...

By Carrie Thompson I zipped up my low rise Rag ‘N Bone jeans and looked back at my ass in the mirror — perfection. I barrelled my way through ...

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Serena Williams vs. Jennifer Hudson: Who Did It Better?...

I know what some of you are thinking, and you’re wrong. Serena Williams just had a lavish wedding to Reddit co-founder, Alex Ohanian, with their...

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Serena and Alex Get Married in New Orleans!...

Take that, haters! Alexis Ohanian and a pregnant Serena Williams attend the Met Gala in New York City last year. (Photo: WireImage) Serena Williams an...

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Carrie Speaks: Are black women less forgiving of black women...

By Carrie *Stop reading right now if the ‘arrogance’ of me being true to myself offends, I repeat. Stop reading. If this is a popularity contest, ...

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Video: Are Black Women Being Realistic About Their Dating Op...

You won’t want to skip this one… https://youtu.be/ai_hW6l9gzI Follow Christelyn on Instagram and Twitter, and subscribe to our You Tube ch...

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Our First LIVE Singles Event TONIGHT! “Dating for the ...

This secret singles group we’ve got going on Facebook is really gaining traction! It’s not just another gathering of transient fans, or a ...

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Dating: Know When to Hold ’em, Know When to Fold ̵...

I recently had a conversation with a friend about her frustration with her boyfriend of a few years, and his hesitance to commit to marriage. They get...

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Watching “Good Times” as an Adult Helped Me Unde...

Don’t ask me how it happened, but channel surfing today landed me on Good Times. I was initially excited…I remembered all the words to the...

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No Blog Post Today But…Open Thread...

I’ll leave you in quiet contemplation as you look upon Marz, our family dog. This is the look on my face right now because my brain is fried. I ...

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Tips to Attract MASCULINE Men...

There is a method. Now more than ever, women need to know how to attract the alphas. https://youtu.be/fdzNpHpdgUM Follow Christelyn on Instagram and T...

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Why Do I Have Charcoal All Over Me?...

Charcoal. Moroccan clay. Water. All you need to a brightening, detoxing body mask that that will leave you smooth and oh-so-touchable. But how did I g...

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Star Jones’ Fiance, And Why It Takes So Long for Black...

Star Jones is of the Wendy Williams, Mary J. Blige, Mo’Nique, and Sheri Sheppard ilk of black women who thought that the completion of their suc...

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Texas Attorney General: Parishioners Should be Armed....

Another day, another mass shooting in America. You’ll have to excuse me today; It’s hard to write about happy things when every week we se...

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Cheers! Newlywed Decorating on a Budget...

Have you ever spent hours browsing Pinterest creating inspiration boards for your perfect bedroom, kitchen, bathroom, porch, and yard? For most people...

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Dumb Sh*t Non-Black Men When Dating Black Women...

Some of you guys need to stop being so gullible with these users while ignoring quality women who aren’t interested in picking your pockets. htt...

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Beyond Black & White Has a Singles Page and a New Event...

At long last, it’s here! You’ve asked..and asked…and asked…and asked…so here it is. The Beyond Black & White Singles...

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Why Some Black Women Don’t Understand ‘BeckyR...

I know this post title is going to upset some people, but know that what I’m discussing is not about race. It’s about culture. And as a mo...

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Hartford University Student Bullied By White Roommate; Schoo...

The story is developing, but a young, black University of Hartford student reported on her Facebook page that the school administration ordered her to...

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7 Steps to Get Out of Debt...

Just in time for the holidays! If you feel buried under a mountain of debt, you’re not alone. Millions of Americans have debt—from taxes to credit...

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Adam: “Swirling Toward Sanity”...

By Adam Corson-Finnerty My father was a white, Roman Catholic, Irish and English, a Southerner, with an eighth grade education and a poorly paid Airm...

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Veil Cosmetics…Foundation Feels Like Second Skin...

I’m always open to discovering light, paraben-free foundations that give good coverage and keep my shiny nose at bay. That’s why I was exc...

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Tiffany Jolene: The Crazy Thing That Happened When She Start...

If the name, “Tiffany Jolene” rings a bell, then you’re well up to date with your viral internet personalities. You will recall that...

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