Samantha and Freddie: Getting out of the Comfort Zone, Part ...

I was delighted to interview Samantha and on her relationship with Freddie. Their relationship will be the first “blatino” couple we feature. I hope you enjoy this series. What challenges have you faced? We are from the San Francisco Bay Area in Northern California, where interracial relationships are very common especially in the younger generations….

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Pedos in the Papers: Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly...

Written by Nicole J. Convicted pedophile and horse-faced sex offender Jeffrey Epstein apparently died of “suicide” in his Manhattan cell today, an...

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On the Issue of Ayesha Curry...

Written by Saran Lawson Not too long ago, Ayesha Curry was trending on social media; not for her love of family or her career,  rather, it was for he...

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Should a neurosurgeon marry a shoe salesman?...

Written by Nicole J. I’m aware that the scenario is probably made up, only posted on the internet to get people triggered and bothered. But as the k...

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The greatest threat to black women is…...

Written by Nicole J. As black women, by simply existing, we face a unique set of challenges. We have no first line of defense; our health, collectivel...

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Pink Pill for College Girls: MLMs are a scam, sis!...

Written by Nicole J. On my Facebook timeline, every so often I’ll see some clueless victim hawking tragic, poor quality makeup/skincare, the latest ...

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Black Moms Gone Viral: Mothers of Twins...

Written by Nicole J. Two black mothers/mother-to-be of twin girls also made it across my screen this week, and since the first post was getting a bit ...

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Black Moms Gone Viral: Mothers of Infants...

Written by Nicole J. This past week, two black mothers are making the rounds on the Internet, for vile reasons. The first woman was in a fight and emb...

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S. Helena and Naveen’s Challenges and Triumphs, Part 2...

I had the opportunity to interview S. Helena on her three-year marriage with Naveen. Some of you may remember her from one of Christelyn’s in-depth ...

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What do YOU want to read on the blog?...

Hello and welcome, BB&W Readers!   This is just a quick little blog hoping to engage with our regular visitors and welcome any new guests! Ho...

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Should couples split the cost of an engagement ring?...

Written by Nicole J. Here I am again, writing a blog after seeing some nonsense on Facebook. I came across this poll on my feed a while back (names le...

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Break Up With Blackistan, I’m Bored...

Written by Nicole J. I love writing, and even more so, I love writing about topics surrounding black women. Being a black woman, I can add my own insi...

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How to respond to unwanted male attention...

Written by Nicole J. Since the dawn of time, women have received unwanted advances from men. In days of old, the tried and true line “I have a boyfr...

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Bond Actresses. Black Bond Actresses....

Written by Nicole J. Three black women made James Bond related news this month, one for rejecting a role in the decades-long James Bond franchise, ano...

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Dear Black Women: Stay true to your relationship deal breake...

Written by Nicole J. Relationships are hard. Even though the Internet has made the world smaller, it can still be difficult to meet “the one”. If ...

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What tips do you have for a marriage minded 30-something?...

I wanted to ask a question about getting back into the dating game after a long hiatus. What’s the best way to start dating again after about a 1 an...

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Hott Bollywood Actors You Need to Know...

Written by Saran Lawson I would like to dedicate this thirsty piece to a few Indian actors I’ve seen in Bollywood films. It’s an excuse for me to ...

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Black Women, Hair, and Swirling...

It’s always the objectively unattractive ones that have something slick to say about black women’s hair. Some nobody I had never heard of until to...

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Pink Pill Spotlight: Naomi’s Dating Strategy, Part 3...

In this interview, we are concluding our first Pink Pill Spotlight. We are diving deeper into black women’s experiences dating abroad and the best s...

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Pink Pill for College Girls: Beware the Pitfalls of Social M...

With the advent of social media, any random thing that comes to mind or an event best kept under wraps can be broadcasted to millions of people in rea...

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Samantha and Freddie: He Knew From the First Date – Pa...

I was delighted to interview Samantha and on her relationship with Freddie. Their relationship will be the first “blatino” couple we feature. I ho...

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Father Beats Young Daughter for Being Sexually Active –...

Written by Nicole J. Another viral video is making its rounds this week, featuring a black male beating his reportedly 12-year-old daughter for having...

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Trini and Jay’s Love, Part 2...

Today’s article continues on our spotlight a new couple, Trini and Jay. Trini was so kind as to speak with me about her 26-year marriage to Jay. Thi...

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My thoughts on who SHOULD play Prince Eric...

Written by Nicole J. Now that Princess Ariel has been cast in the remake of The Little Mermaid, focus now shifts to who will play her prince, Eric. I ...

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Introducing Trini and Jay, Part 1...

Today’s article is focused on a new couple, Trini and Jay. Fun fact: She is actually a writer on this site! Trini was so kind as to speak with me ab...

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Disney Brawl Postscript: How Toxicity Flourishes...

Written by Nicole J. Apparently no charges were pressed following the Disney beat down that happened earlier this month, and that is a testament to ho...

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Couple Crush! Katie and Philippe: A Strong and United Love, ...

In this article, we will continue to share the story of our first couple from France. Thank you, Katie and Philippe, for doing this interview with me....

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Couple Crush! Katie and Philippe: He Found His Black Pearl, ...

In this article, we will welcome our first couple from France. Katie  has graciously agreed to discuss her marriage with Philippe. I hope you enjoy t...

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At 46, So Many Lessons…...

Next week I’ll be 46. And you know what? I’m sooo good with it. I’ve learned so much, and I still have so much more to learn. Here’s 10 Things...

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Hot Take: If Prince Eric was black…...

Written by Nicole J. The casting choice of Halle Bailey to be in the latest Hollywood remake, The Little Mermaid, has stirred up every social media pl...

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