Tiffany Haddish and the Subtle Art of Knowing When to STFU...

Written by Penelope Farthing Comedienne Tiffany Haddish recently let it be known that she once got so drunk that she had a whoopsie poopsie on herself in an Uber. Shit happens, right? Unfortunately, not so much. It really bothers me when I see black women partaking in their own degradation. We deal with our likeness…

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Is money worth your dignity? Kevin and Eniko Hart...

Written by Penelope Farthing Terrible comedian and abnormally tall Oompa-Loompa Kevin Hart made headlines again this week, promoting his latest projec...

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Five-Star Gaslamp Experience at the U.S. Grant...

Southern California residents are super spoiled. We literally can surf, ski and chase a tumbleweed all in the same day. My favorite is the beaches of ...

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Hamster Wheel Friend™: Don’t Let Them Run You Crazy Too...

I don’t know how many of you remember the episode of SATC (Sex and the City) in season 2 after Carrie had broken up with Big the 2nd time. The episo...

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Man, those swirlers sure must be miserable!...

Written by Penelope Farthing The narrative commonly believed is that because I didn’t marry a black man and still write about black women’s relati...

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Dear Black Women: Never Accept Struggle Dates!...

Written by Penelope Farthing In this age of social media, there is no shortage of material to write about. Since I frequently write about the unique e...

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Wendy Williams: A Case Study...

Written by Penelope Farthing I haven’t been following this Wendy Williams drama too closely. To be honest, I am not really a fan of hers as she come...

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The OLDER Woman’s Advantage in Interracial Dating...

When other women are feeling “washed up,” black women are just getting started–especially if they know how to play the interracial d...

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Video: How to Catch a Whale 🐳 at Work...

Did You Know I Caught a Once Caught a WHALE? (I threw him back though.) Let’s face it. The average person spends a lot of time at work. With all...

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Video: The Importance of Making (and Keeping) a Variety of F...

I met Anna Bey on a lark a year ago when I stumbled upon her blog, the JetSetBabe. I was struck by her beauty, intelligence, and poise. I was intrigue...

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If you’re a black woman against swirling, you’re...

Written by Penelope Farthing Here’s an unpopular opinion for you: in 2019, if you’re a black woman and against swirling, you are stupid. Okay, stu...

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“At least I have a man!” is not a clapback, sis...

Written by Penelope Farthing Imagine with me, if you will. You are single, happy, and doing your thing. You might be in school, working on your degree...

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Hidden Relationships: Are You in One?...

Hidden Relationships: Are You in One? Written By Saran Lawson Do you suspect that you’re someone’s secret? You’re tucked away in a ...

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Wait…Issa Rae is ENGAGED?!...

Asa runs a YouTube channel called The Mellow Lyfe. Check it out here. Issa Rae is engaged, and her fiancé is not an Asian man, presumably. Why does t...

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Things to Give Up for Lent and Beyond...

Written by Penelope Farthing Whether or not you celebrate Lent, the 40-day period is a good way of refocusing your goals you set at the beginning of t...

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Don’t Miss This…LIVE INFO WEBINAR on The Pink Pi...

TODAY, you will get all the tea! You’ll hear and see the details of the master course, hear the testimonials of real women who have enrolled and...

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Just In Time for St. Paddy’s: The No Hangover Rules...

The No Hangover Rules Written by Saran Lawson I’m no doctor. I just have a few years of experience under my belt that can help with those nights you...

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St. Paddy’s Day Special – Where to meet Irish Me...

Written by Penelope Farthing Aidan Turner, Robert Sheehan, Cillian Murphy, Michael Fassbender, (Northern Irish) Jamie Dornan…Irish men are defin...

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What About Your Friends? When Your Friend Is Part of “The ...

New relationships bring out a plethora of feelings. There’s the giddiness. There are the extended glances at one another. There are the hours and ho...

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The Miseducation of Azriel Clary: The Gayle King Interview...

Written By Saran Lawson Do you remember when you were in your 20’s? I do and I can tell you confidently in my early 20’s, I knew nothing. I’ve...

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Five Things Black Women Should Never Do at Work Events...

Ah…the things I’ve learned since leaving the corporate world behind. The mistakes listed in this video are actual things that I did and sh...

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Lessons to learn from Tamron Hall’s Baby Announcement...

Written by Penelope Farthing There are many benefits in waiting to start a family. Finances are more likely to be in order. Debts are likely to be sig...

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R Kelly Did an Interview and My Eye’s Are Still Rollin...

  Written by Saran Lawson You guys (sighs). I am so tired of this media circus concerning R Kelly. At this point just let the court handle it. I&...

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Five Mantras to Live By in 2019...

Written by Penelope Farthing It is still pretty early in 2019, and while the New Year New Me attitude may not be as new; it is never too late to reinv...

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R. Kelly Was Bailed Out By A Black Woman, Surprising No One...

It was recently reported that a black woman by the name of Valencia Love posted the $100,000 bail for Robert Kelly. Safe to say, I am both disgusted a...

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Tamron Hall Is a Stealthy Swirler of the Highest Degree!!...

Tamron Hall can keep a hell of a secret. In one fell swoop, she announced that she is eight months pregnant at age 48, and is interracially married. O...

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Black Women, We’re Light Years Behind the Curve....

It’s Time to Get Serious About Your Future, Sis. This afternoon I had been feeling a bit tired from a very busy week planning activities around ...

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You Won’t Believe What White Men are Saying About Marr...

Check out this video and see why more and more non-black men are finding love with black women....

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Black Women, Stop Broadcasting Foolishness!...

Written by Penelope Farthing We black women are beautiful. We age more slowly, our natural hair grows towards the sky, and at our best, other women bu...

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Opinion: Pro-Blacks Shouldn’t Date or Marry White...

Written by Asa, creator of the YouTube channel, The Mellow Lyfe I met my White [then] boyfriend now husband during the same year the Black Lives Matte...

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