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And This is Why We Still Talk About Black Men On B...

People often wonder why this site sometimes discusses the relationships black men have with black women. The criticism is often, “If you’v...
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“Swirlr” Series Finale…Think It&...

There’s a bunch of twists and turns in this one. Take a look and let’s discus!...
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Letting Matthew Hussey Take on ‘The Question...

I get a lot of letters from women who are asking my advice about a guy they’ve built up really large in their minds. It’s like these women...
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Pella’s Rebuttal: When Women are the Misogyn...

By Pella I penned my last essay to start a discussion about the entitlement to women’s bodies, which (whoooo) it sure did create a discussion. O...
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Just in Time for Loving Day, Moguldum Studios Rele...

I have to admit I was SCURRED to tell you guys I was in a new documentary called, The Swirl, only because the parent company, Moguldum Studios, publis...
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Man Candy Monday: You Nasty Boy, You Nasty…&...

They say, “Cleanliness is next to Godliness” but who wants to involve thoughts of the Pearly Gates at this leg of the race? Gym rats, athl...
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What’s the Message Here? He’ll Marry H...

Okay so we all know that Kanye West and Kim Kardashian FINALLY tied the knot this weekend in Florence, Italy. I for one am glad the whole fiasco is ov...
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In Defense of Funky Brown Chick’s “Tip...

I see there’s some outrage about a recent article Twanna Hines (aka Funky Brown Chick) wrote to advise non-black men on how to date black women....
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Message to the Men: Sometimes Nothing You Do Will ...

Oy vey….. What comes part and parcel of being a friend of mankind is being privy to information that other women aren’t. In addition to th...
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She’s Beautiful. She’s Successful. She...

Take one look at Misee Harris, a sweet, soft-spoken southern belle from Tennessee (and a doctor and inventor for lawd’s sakes at only 29) you&#...
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Some May Have Scoffed, But 300-Sandwiches Lady Jus...

Three-hundred sandwich lady made headlines last year (and sparked outrage to both militant feminists and the pro-black, anti-interracial relationship ...
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Why Do Some Black Women Think I’m Trying to ...

So…I’ve made it my business to really cease and desist addressing folks that take cheap shots at me, my work, and this site. They can stea...
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The Great Debate Between Me and Matthew Hussey: Sh...

Subjects for the Question of the Week often come in themes. Lately I’ve gotten a lot of questions for men and women conflicted about starting wo...
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Man Candy Monday: XXL Big Daddy’s and Taco M...

Are you the type of woman who likes things in large doses? I’ll be the first to admit it, I like to indulge in my vices, men included. So for al...
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