“A Beautiful Burden” One Man’s C...

By “Zac Onbothsides”   Ok. We’ve established that there’s an attraction, we’ve even talked about the awkwardness of expressing ... READ MORE

That Awkward Moment When Numbskulls Assume Your Bi...

Last night, my husband Sean was holding our 16-month-old daughter Maya as we were boarding a flight from BWI to MCO. As we stepped onto the plane, one... READ MORE

Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re ...

A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so def... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: Hollywood Hotties Then, and Now

What’s the saying again, “Something old, something new. Something Man Candy, just for you?” Age ain’t nothing but a number whe... READ MORE

Best Cities For Interracial Dating

What are the Best cities for interracial dating & relationships? I’m working on a master list NEVER BEEN DONE before (not sure why tho) on an in... READ MORE

Open Thread: “How Do I Explain My Preference...

Okay well he didn’t say that…exactly. Here’s what this 20-something white guy actually wrote… Mrs. Karazin,I’m not asham... READ MORE

Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black Woman&#...

First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I’m glad you’re listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter... READ MORE

QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Rel...

People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at romance?... READ MORE

Another BB&W Reader Success Story! Remember A...

Some of you might recall a reader letter from April, who wrote me back in 2013 about how this blog was a support to her as she began dating Henry, a f... READ MORE

Robin Thicke and His Very Public Attempt to Win Ba...

Robin Thicke is really, really, really serious about winning back his humiliated wife, Paula Patton with this new video, “Get You Back,” a... READ MORE

Loving Day Flagship Event Recap Plus Adorable R...

If you live anywhere near the East Coast and didn’t go to the Loving Day flagship event in New York City earlier this month, you might want to k... READ MORE

Who Knew Asian Men Were This Sexy? More of Philipp...

My new friend, Philippe Koo is truly one of the most beautiful Asian men I’ve ever seen in my life. His father is Chinese and his mother is Germ... READ MORE

Utter Hypocrisy: Let’s Talk About All the Du...

Sigh…a segment of people invested in keeping black women in an inferior position (and I say “people,” because this group is composed... READ MORE

Black American Matriarch Set Roots In New Zealand

Elizabeth Cabell American slavery left an unwitting legacy on most of us descended from Africans. The sad thing is that most of us don’t know our hi... READ MORE