Being Discerning versus Being Judgemental

Being Discerning This is sort of a rambling post. I just read an excellent article on Psychology Today called “Don’t be Judgemental, Be Di... READ MORE

Makeup By Monae: Quick Hair and Makeup Look

If only we all had the time to make ourselves look like the hottest celeb on TV, but that isn’t realistic.  I’m here to help those of us ... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: Danell Leyva’s Naked Body ...

There is something about a man’s body that I just can’t deny. The lines of his shoulders, the width of his waist, the way his calf muscles... READ MORE

Studies (and experience) Show Black Men Benefit an...

In two separate studies, Megan Holland and  Simone Ipsa-Landa examined the experiences of Black boys and girls who participated in diversity program... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: Who Said Indian Men Ain’t ...

Okay, to show you all just how shallow one needs to be in order to identify, process and discard men, I give you Exhibit A. Upen Patel is a hot, gorge... READ MORE

Black Male Celebrities Are Dating and Marrying Int...

I was going through a recent slideshow on Huffington Post of all of the celebrity marriages so far in 2013 (watch the slide show because you will not... READ MORE

Wear It Well Wednesday: Animal Prints and You̷...

Now that we’ve got the hang of wearing clothing made to get you seen I think it’s high time to push the envelope a little bit. What’... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: Byung-Hun Lee

I was hooked the moment I first saw Bruce Lee as a wee babe. Since that time Asian men have secretly been on my internal male objectification radar. N... READ MORE

Pimps Up! Hoes Down…. Breaking Down The Tric...

A mind can be a terrible thing to waste and I’m aware that not everybody’s mind is built for social combat. I’m fortunate to have had a ... READ MORE

A Traditionally Feminine Black Woman Under Attack!

Have any of you heard about Stephanie Smith? Well she’s a Black woman who is dating a White man. Well one day she made him a sandwich and he jok... READ MORE

Black Women Suspicious When Desired yet Begging to...

Black Women Suspicious When Someone Desires Them I just read this post on Clutch about a new dating site called I Love Black Women.  According to Clu... READ MORE

How Can We Avoid Mr. Wrong???

Did you hear about the Florida man who killed his wife and posted a picture of her body on Facebook? He even left their 10-year-old daughter in the ho... READ MORE

Getting Familiar with His Familia: Meeting His Fam...

The word family can either cause the average person to break out in a huge smile while feeling those warm and tingly reminders of all things safe and ... READ MORE

Aye Papi…………One Woman̵...

My hometown of Jersey City, New Jersey is a cultural melting pot, known as a 'stuck' town, consisting of newly arriving migrant people who end up find... READ MORE