QOTW: “Help! I Have a SWIRLING Question!” But…Is It, Really??


Matthew, a fellow Hokie of mine, told me to contact you about an interracial relationship question that I had. I am age 22, and graduated from … [Read more...]

Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way: BB&W Is NOT Just a Swirling Club.

Christelyn loves us. How do I know this? Because she does not just tell us what we want to hear. That is what people who sincerely care about us … [Read more...]

You Aren’t SPECIAL!! Know the Signs of a Dangerous Man, Save Your Sanity, Save Your Life.

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I am in the process of counseling a friend who has been dating a sociopath. For months this man strung her along, making her feel like there might be … [Read more...]

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“Men Aren’t Stupid. And Nine Other Free Lessons That Will Change Your Life,” A Book Review

men aren't stupid and nine other free lessons that will change your life

There is no shortage of relationship books being marketed to women. In such a flooded field, a book that would be worth your time to read needs to … [Read more...]

Swirling Success in Sweden!


Got this note from "LB", a woman who ditched the naysayers and found her true love in Sweden. Here's her story, in her words... I found the love of … [Read more...]

Swirling and Marriage – Andreas and Zani

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When I came across this couple I was actually drawn into the photo by the intense and deep love Danish Andreas Anderskou and South African  Zani … [Read more...]

Why Would You Date or Marry a Known Racist?

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A couple of days ago I was led to a story on one of those white nationalists sites about a white racist who loves black women and is with one of the … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “My Brother Says He Will Disown Me If I Date White!”


Hi, I'm a 19 years old and I'm very interesting in swirling I have had interest in white guys before but never really made an attempt at dating them … [Read more...]

How Do Black Women Respond When Someone “Pulls Rank”?


This post is a bit tricky because it deals with the issue of  intersectionality. I strongly suggest people read up on the term and who is impacted. I … [Read more...]

Reason 20 Kabillion Why Wal*Mart Sucks: White Father Accused of Kidnapping Because Security and Onlookers Thought They “Don’t Match Up.”


Forget about "What The Cuss?!" file this story under "OMG Seriously?? GTFOOH!!" ATTENTION SWIRLING DADS AND MOMS, BE SURE TO CARRY YOUR BIRACIAL … [Read more...]