ABC’s “The Bachelor” is back — with four Black Women!

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ABC's The Bachelor is Back!  I know this has forever been a topic of discussion in my circle of black swirling girlfriends and colleagues, but now … [Read more...]

Messages from ‘Django Unchained’: The Black ‘Damsel’, the ‘Django Moment’, and Phrenology’s Centerstage Show

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Now that Django is released in the UK, let's start spoiling it for real. Before writing my last post on Quentin Tarantino's film "Django … [Read more...]

Friday Funny: Wigs, Weaves and Nap Balls…

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One of my readers sent me this email last night and I LMAO... MAJOR. WIG. SCARE. IN. BED.....He turned to cuddle, but as he was turning, his arm was … [Read more...]

Love: Why You Don’t Have to Be Perfect To Find Love, or Anything Else.

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“Right around the time I reached my goal weight, I met the man that I would marry”, begins “Chubby, Skinny Accepting”, writer Cole Kazdin’s Modern … [Read more...]

Asian Guy Gets Serious with His Black Girlfriend, Mom’s Response Stuns Him.

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I have a Chinese friend, 30 years old, educated IT professional who's been dating a black girl for a year, long distance. The girlfriend is in school, … [Read more...]

Top Ten States with the Most Educated Eligible Bachelors

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What's an educated, single woman with a college degree supposed to do if she wants to meet someone as educated as her? For the first time in American … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “He Never Called, But Made Out with Me at a Party. What Gives?”

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Here's the question... Hiiiiiii! I stumbled upon your blog one day by accident and LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE it. You made me way more … [Read more...]

Kola Boof: Billionaires Prefer *Black* Women

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syndicated with permission of Kola Boof from The Sexy Part of the Bible blog BILLIONAIRES Prefer Black Women  by Kola … [Read more...]

BB&W Love Story: R. Kamaria Finds Her Rainbeau!

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I've had the pleasure of knowing Rasheda for a couple years, so I knew about the highs and lows of her singlehood. She was featured as a "Goddess of … [Read more...]

Blasian Into 2013: First Couple to Marry in Cook County

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My buddy Eddie posted this on the BB&W Fan page and just thought I'd share. From NBC Chicago: They call it “love at second … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XIX- Daters or Haters? Looking for Red Flags in Online Profiles

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    Happy 2013 Everyone! I didn’t make any resolutions for the New Year because I’m still working on the ones I made last year, but I … [Read more...]