ABC’s “The Bachelor” is back — with four Black Women!

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ABC's The Bachelor is Back!  I know this has forever been a topic of discussion in my circle of black swirling girlfriends and colleagues, but now … [Read more...]

Messages from ‘Django Unchained’: The Black ‘Damsel’, the ‘Django Moment’, and Phrenology’s Centerstage Show


Now that Django is released in the UK, let's start spoiling it for real. Before writing my last post on Quentin Tarantino's film "Django … [Read more...]

Friday Funny: Wigs, Weaves and Nap Balls…


One of my readers sent me this email last night and I LMAO... MAJOR. WIG. SCARE. IN. BED.....He turned to cuddle, but as he was turning, his arm was … [Read more...]

Love: Why You Don’t Have to Be Perfect To Find Love, or Anything Else.


“Right around the time I reached my goal weight, I met the man that I would marry”, begins “Chubby, Skinny Accepting”, writer Cole Kazdin’s Modern … [Read more...]

Asian Guy Gets Serious with His Black Girlfriend, Mom’s Response Stuns Him.

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I have a Chinese friend, 30 years old, educated IT professional who's been dating a black girl for a year, long distance. The girlfriend is in school, … [Read more...]

Top Ten States with the Most Educated Eligible Bachelors

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What's an educated, single woman with a college degree supposed to do if she wants to meet someone as educated as her? For the first time in American … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “He Never Called, But Made Out with Me at a Party. What Gives?”


Here's the question... Hiiiiiii! I stumbled upon your blog one day by accident and LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE it. You made me way more … [Read more...]

Kola Boof: Billionaires Prefer *Black* Women


syndicated with permission of Kola Boof from The Sexy Part of the Bible blog BILLIONAIRES Prefer Black Women  by Kola … [Read more...]

BB&W Love Story: R. Kamaria Finds Her Rainbeau!

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I've had the pleasure of knowing Rasheda for a couple years, so I knew about the highs and lows of her singlehood. She was featured as a "Goddess of … [Read more...]

Blasian Into 2013: First Couple to Marry in Cook County


My buddy Eddie posted this on the BB&W Fan page and just thought I'd share. From NBC Chicago: They call it “love at second … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XIX- Daters or Haters? Looking for Red Flags in Online Profiles


    Happy 2013 Everyone! I didn’t make any resolutions for the New Year because I’m still working on the ones I made last year, but I … [Read more...]