QOTW: “Help! I Have a SWIRLING Question!” But…Is It, Really??

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Matthew, a fellow Hokie of mine, told me to contact you about an interracial relationship question that I had. I am age 22, and graduated from … [Read more...]

Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way: BB&W Is NOT Just a Swirling Club.

Christelyn loves us. How do I know this? Because she does not just tell us what we want to hear. That is what people who sincerely care about us … [Read more...]

You Aren’t SPECIAL!! Know the Signs of a Dangerous Man, Save Your Sanity, Save Your Life.

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I am in the process of counseling a friend who has been dating a sociopath. For months this man strung her along, making her feel like there might be … [Read more...]

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“Men Aren’t Stupid. And Nine Other Free Lessons That Will Change Your Life,” A Book Review

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There is no shortage of relationship books being marketed to women. In such a flooded field, a book that would be worth your time to read needs to … [Read more...]

Swirling Success in Sweden!

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Got this note from "LB", a woman who ditched the naysayers and found her true love in Sweden. Here's her story, in her words... I found the love of … [Read more...]

Swirling and Marriage – Andreas and Zani

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When I came across this couple I was actually drawn into the photo by the intense and deep love Danish Andreas Anderskou and South African  Zani … [Read more...]

Why Would You Date or Marry a Known Racist?

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A couple of days ago I was led to a story on one of those white nationalists sites about a white racist who loves black women and is with one of the … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “My Brother Says He Will Disown Me If I Date White!”

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Hi, I'm a 19 years old and I'm very interesting in swirling I have had interest in white guys before but never really made an attempt at dating them … [Read more...]

How Do Black Women Respond When Someone “Pulls Rank”?

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This post is a bit tricky because it deals with the issue of  intersectionality. I strongly suggest people read up on the term and who is impacted. I … [Read more...]

Reason 20 Kabillion Why Wal*Mart Sucks: White Father Accused of Kidnapping Because Security and Onlookers Thought They “Don’t Match Up.”

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Forget about "What The Cuss?!" file this story under "OMG Seriously?? GTFOOH!!" ATTENTION SWIRLING DADS AND MOMS, BE SURE TO CARRY YOUR BIRACIAL … [Read more...]