Why Would You Date or Marry a Known Racist?

klan swirl

A couple of days ago I was led to a story on one of those white nationalists sites about a white racist who loves black women and is with one of the … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “My Brother Says He Will Disown Me If I Date White!”


Hi, I'm a 19 years old and I'm very interesting in swirling I have had interest in white guys before but never really made an attempt at dating them … [Read more...]

How Do Black Women Respond When Someone “Pulls Rank”?


This post is a bit tricky because it deals with the issue of  intersectionality. I strongly suggest people read up on the term and who is impacted. I … [Read more...]

Reason 20 Kabillion Why Wal*Mart Sucks: White Father Accused of Kidnapping Because Security and Onlookers Thought They “Don’t Match Up.”


Forget about "What The Cuss?!" file this story under "OMG Seriously?? GTFOOH!!" ATTENTION SWIRLING DADS AND MOMS, BE SURE TO CARRY YOUR BIRACIAL … [Read more...]

“Young Teach,” Former BB&W Blogger is Getting Hitched!!


I'm totally over the moon! You regulars remember 'Young Teach,' the really cute music teacher from Tennessee who had recently acted upon his desire to … [Read more...]

What Types of People Marry Interracially?


                I consider most people who marry interracially, progressive and out of … [Read more...]

Pornography Versus Erotica: Corset Magazine Settles the Score


The biological chemistry of sexual desire and intrigue has been with man (and woman) since the beginning of time and I don't believe that's ever going … [Read more...]

Why Not Give a Guy in Prison a Chance?

Newsweek March 3, 2003

I was scrolling through the television channels and came across a show called Prison Wives.  I was giving it a side eye based on the title alone but I … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XXII- Learning How to “Get the Guy”

Dating Guru Matthew Hussey 17/11/09

  Like most gainfully employed Americans, I am having a hard time finding a way to maintain a desirable work-life balance. After doing my taxes I … [Read more...]

BET Heiress Marries a Rainbeau! Just Goes to Show Rich Folks Want Ratchet For Eveyone Else EXCEPT Their Own.


By now you've probably heard that Paige Johnson, heiress to the ratchety B.E.T. empire, was recently wed. Wait. Did she marry Lil Wayne? Ludacris? … [Read more...]