QOTW: One Viewer Asks, “Why Do Black Men Seem to Flock to White Women, But Not the Other Way Around?”

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  Here's my not-so-politically correct answer. … [Read more...]

White Guy Asks, “How Do I Protect Black Women from DBR’s in Public?”


I just got this letter and wanted to publish it immediately. I am pleased to see that the conversations that take place on this site about the lack of … [Read more...]

QOTW: I’m black, but now I have “white people problems”…

Young Ethnic Woman is Very Surpised

I’m black, but now I have “white people problems”… My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over 2 years. He (47) and I (44) are divorced. He … [Read more...]

QOTW: On Hair…The ‘Kinky’ Discussion with Your Rainbeau

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Got this question from a subscriber on my You Tube channel. She seemed pretty desperate so I moved her to the front of the queue... When do you think … [Read more...]

QOTW: Quirky Girl Wants to Date Interracially. Some Tips…


Here's the question... I'm 30 yrs old and a grad student in college. I live in a pretty segregated city. I'm primarily interested in dating white … [Read more...]

QOTW: Her First Interracial Relationship, Long Distance

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I'm 20 years old and a college student. I recently went on vacation and ended up meeting this amazing guy. We are opposites on the outside and a … [Read more...]

QOTW: Guy’s First Serious IRR, But Wonders Why His Girl is Pulling Away…


Here's the letter: Hi my name is Christopher im 28 years old from Miami florida now living in Detroit michigan. I have watched your videos on the … [Read more...]

Older Latin Man Wants Younger Black Woman…Should He Go For It?

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Here's the question. Meet me in the comments section for your take. Christelyn, I think this is not just one single question, I think I am … [Read more...]

QOTW: “Should a Woman Ever Play Down Her Accomplishments to Attract a Man?”

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I got this question from a pretty successful friend of mine, and it took me a while to answer because I wanted to make sure I wasn't coming from a … [Read more...]

Digital Daters, Keep Away from “I’m A God-Fearing Woman” Taglines!!

Got this letter from a young lady... First off, let me start by saying I love all your videos. It is lovely to just take some time out of my spare … [Read more...]

QOTW: “I Can’t Stand My Black Girlfriend’s ‘Hood’ Name!”


  My black girlfriend, who I both like and love, has one of those crazy made-up "hood" names (her descriptive phrase, not mine) that defies … [Read more...]