Question of the Week: Shy Girl Wants to Confront College Crush

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Here's the question I received: Dear Christelyn,I am an introverted , somewhat shy, Black  girl interested in interracial dating. I am a freshman in … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “He Never Called, But Made Out with Me at a Party. What Gives?”


Here's the question... Hiiiiiii! I stumbled upon your blog one day by accident and LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE it. You made me way more … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Why Do Men Give Such Mixed Signals?”

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A reader wrote in with a question that left me scratching my head, so I brought in the heavy artillery! [See below] "I am a 24 year old student … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Pro-Black Girl Feels Conflicted About Interracial Dating


i am a young African American female and i am a big avocate for back empowerment and inspiring my community to do and become better. id get the black … [Read more...]

College Girl Asks, “Why Do I Always Have to Be the Wing Woman?”


Hi Christelyn, My hands are actually shaking as I've finally found the guts to write to you!  My name is "D" and I've never commented on your blog … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “do you think it’s unnatural to exclusively desire a race other than your own?”


I received this note from "Reluctant Geek Girl," and she needs our help. Dear Christelyn, I am a mid-30s single black woman from NYC.  I've … [Read more...]

White Guy Asks, “Am I Dating the Wrong Black Woman?”


I got this note from someone who reached out to me on Facebook. Here goes: I'm a white male and I've been dating a black female for four months. I … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “How Do I Deal With Street Harassment?”


Dear Chris, I was wondering what your take is on immature men. I am in college, so I don't expect much from most men in their early 20's(not much … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Nobody Wants Me, So Why Should I Bother?”


Dear Blog Owner, The Mammy, the Mule article about BW stereotypes has triggered some feelings in me that I want to express. I am just so … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Why is it Everyone’s Business If Some Black Women Have a Preference for Non-Black Men?


I got this note from a regular reader and I thought it was worth it for all of ya'll to read... Dear Christelyn, Over the past few months I have … [Read more...]