Question of the Week: Shy Girl Wants to Confront College Crush

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Here's the question I received: Dear Christelyn,I am an introverted , somewhat shy, Black  girl interested in interracial dating. I am a freshman in … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “He Never Called, But Made Out with Me at a Party. What Gives?”

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Here's the question... Hiiiiiii! I stumbled upon your blog one day by accident and LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE it. You made me way more … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Why Do Men Give Such Mixed Signals?”

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A reader wrote in with a question that left me scratching my head, so I brought in the heavy artillery! [See below] "I am a 24 year old student … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Pro-Black Girl Feels Conflicted About Interracial Dating

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i am a young African American female and i am a big avocate for back empowerment and inspiring my community to do and become better. id get the black … [Read more...]

College Girl Asks, “Why Do I Always Have to Be the Wing Woman?”

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Hi Christelyn, My hands are actually shaking as I've finally found the guts to write to you!  My name is "D" and I've never commented on your blog … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “do you think it’s unnatural to exclusively desire a race other than your own?”

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I received this note from "Reluctant Geek Girl," and she needs our help. Dear Christelyn, I am a mid-30s single black woman from NYC.  I've … [Read more...]

White Guy Asks, “Am I Dating the Wrong Black Woman?”

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I got this note from someone who reached out to me on Facebook. Here goes: I'm a white male and I've been dating a black female for four months. I … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “How Do I Deal With Street Harassment?”

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Dear Chris, I was wondering what your take is on immature men. I am in college, so I don't expect much from most men in their early 20's(not much … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: “Nobody Wants Me, So Why Should I Bother?”

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Dear Blog Owner, The Mammy, the Mule article about BW stereotypes has triggered some feelings in me that I want to express. I am just so … [Read more...]

Question of the Week: Why is it Everyone’s Business If Some Black Women Have a Preference for Non-Black Men?

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I got this note from a regular reader and I thought it was worth it for all of ya'll to read... Dear Christelyn, Over the past few months I have … [Read more...]