NYC Flagship Loving Day Event on June 14! Primo Opportunity to Meets Folks Open to Meet Folks Open to Interracial Dating!

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If you East Coast people haven't get gone to the Loving Day flagship event in New York city, you absolutely do not know what you're missing. Organized … [Read more...]

Message to the Men: Sometimes Nothing You Do Will Be Good Enough (Tough Lesson; Must Read)

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Oy vey..... What comes part and parcel of being a friend of mankind is being privy to information that other women aren't. In addition to that, I'm … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: XXL Big Daddy’s and Taco Meat For All!!

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Are you the type of woman who likes things in large doses? I'll be the first to admit it, I like to indulge in my vices, men included. So for all of … [Read more...]

What? Interracial Romance Novels are on’s Radar. That’s Huge.

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Before I start, I just want to give a shout out to all my folks who bring stories they know I like to cover. You make my life tremendously easier. XO … [Read more...]

Ratchet Roundup: News We Didn’t Cover this Week and Are Darned Proud of It!

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So...yes I saw the unfortunate video clip of Solange Knowles taking out 400 years of slavery on Jay Z's already unfortunate-looking face. Beyonce said … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday (Night Cap): Now Come to Bed….

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Yes, there comes a time in a woman's life where she will have to make a decision. Should she, or should she not, join him in bed? Beds are for … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Hot Guys With Beards


"Guys with beards kisses tingle, and make all the girls giggle", or so I hear. What's all the fuss about when it comes to men with beards? Who knows, … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Long Hair, Don’t Care

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I love men of all shapes and sizes. Though you can usually catch a well groomed man on my arm I do hold a place in my peripheral for those who forgo … [Read more...]

Femininity Series Part II: Why Black Women Aren’t Happier When They’re Pregnant


Not long ago a study released by Stephen Wu and Paul Hagstrom, both professors of economics at Hamilton College, revealed that black women aren't … [Read more...]

Happy Humpday: A Tiny Ember or a Raging Inferno (Does Size Really Matter?)

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Congratulations! You've made it to midweek. Only a few more days to go. So since you've got some time on your hands and may find yourself sitting … [Read more...]