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Can you imagine? A white man passed for black so he could marry the love of his life.

Un-be-freaking-lievable. This has got to be made into a movie.
Fix the link to NPR. It's misspelled.
SabrinaDeniseWhiteman
Try it now.
Would make a great movie. Hint hint to Hollywood.
I remember reading the Jefferson/Hemming book about their romance and being shocked and surprised. Then I hear about this; a white man passing to be with the woman he loved. I always wanted the fantasy but thought bc I was black I wouldn't be abl e to have it. It just wasn't how I was raised. I have started a new phase of my life and I would love to have that all encompassing love. Thank you Swirlqueen perfect for black history month. I love this series
MommyTRex2010 This just goes to show that men AREN'T all alike.
their son looks like Humphrey Bogart. the plot thickens. acting runs in the family
love this story!! this just goes to prove the length some will go in the name of love
Now that's Love!
I wonder how she felt when she found out. She probably didn't find it to be so romantic. That is an absolutely amazing story. They should make a movie about it.
SwirlQueen Thanks for posting this and providing links to the research behind it. Can't believe that this project stemmed from 5 pages out of 500 that represented 13 years of Clarence King's double life. Kudos to Martha Sanweiss for thinking it was inadequate and bringing the truth to light. Amazing story!
chilljill
Thanks CJ!
WOW!! ....Amazing! Keepem coming SwirlQween. :)
Another great post SwirlQueen!!!
The hopeless romantic in me is loving these stories.
Thank you, for doing the research and sharing.
History proves that we have always been a choice for opposite races, it was that they had to hide their feelings.....
Morenika Coming from a WM who had to hide his feeling so many years ago, thank you for saying that. Thank you for understanding that.
SwirlQueen: I've really loved and enjoyed these historical stories of BW/WM love. Thank you so much for doing the research. I guess my favorite is still Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings. Its so satisfying to know that a famous president of the United State fell in love with a BW and had a number of children with her. If the Jefferson/Hemings affair and the four stories you've told so far don't convince BW that WM have always loved them, nothing will. Thank you!
I am really enjoying this series. It brings out the hopeful romantic in me that Disney and most fairytales just couldn't. Knowledge really is power. I'm not gung ho into history, but there's something about love stories involving women with whom I can relate phenotypically that makes me want to park myself somewhere, shut up, and listen closely.
Whaaaa? I am shocked? A white man passing as black to marry a black women?!?! In 1879?!?!? I'll be back, I gotta go to that link and listen about this story!
I read the book on this couple and the husband led a double life, as a Black man with his wife and kids and a White man in the workplace.
WOW!!!!!!!
Stories like this are inspirng. The heart wants what the heart wants.
So, let me get this straight. A WM actually passed as a BM to be with his love? Now that's a new one!
Karla In a time of Jim Crow this was done, many women cannot get a man the same color as them in this day and time to make that type of sacrifice.
DU2 I didn't know that WM masqueraded as BM to be with BW. Passing as White was well-known during Jim Crow. My astonishment is that this WM would endure all the disrespect, censure and other nastiness that came with being Black to be with this woman. I think it's a major sacrifice and worthy of a movie of the week on Lifetime, at least!
Karla DU2 Right you are, Karla. This is the kind of sacrifice that should become a movie. Its a touching story. THAT is what you call love. The couple should be remembered as much as the Lovings. And since that happened one hundred and twenty five year ago, he was an even braver man than Richard Loving. It's available on Amazon Kindle. I'm going there now to download it.
It would be good if someone made this into a book and then into a drama for tv...this actually happened...similar to Alex Haleys ROOTS
Karla Karly maybe it was more of a privalidge to do it for his queen than a sacrifice
Passing as black to be with a black woman, that is love darling!
Amazing series!
I mean who would do that just because they wanted her just for sex?
heyimPearlilikefries Why would be just for the sex? What about the companionship, she taking care of him, LOVE..etc, etc....who knows?! Sex is a part of it, but not the end all!
ForeverSerenity I was saying that because people like to say that sex was the reason white man could ever want a a black woman.
heyimPearlilikefries ForeverSerenity
I understood your meaning Pearl. This is the argument that many black men and women like to throw up to justify their hatred of bw-wm couples. They want to always bring up rape during slavery and Jim Crow as if those were the only relationships between them. They are mistaken. Recordsand pictures prove that white Men Married these women and many had children.
SwirlQueen Thanks for posting this. It's a shame that only the ugly history gets any attention.
I first heard about this on NPR and was so fascinated!
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