BUTTER PECAN CAKE, Simple but so good!...

I have been away for awhile, but I wanted to share this wonderful cake. The next time I am going to try this with macadamia nuts, it should work just fine.

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Swirling, Young, Beautiful and Disabled?...

In light of the wonderful discussion prompted by a QOTW that stumped our wise one, I could not help think of the first person who followed me on Tumbl...

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Photo of the Day: The Babster Shows Her Support for Cheerios...

I need to buy some General Mills stock......

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Jenn M. Jackson Says, “Cheerios Commercial Philosopher...

Eric Liu at Time Magazine offered a post-racialist perspective of the Cheerios Ad which aired on YouTube last week. Jenn M. Jackson has some disagreem...

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Help! This QOTW Has Me Stumped!!...

Most of the dating questions I get on this blog are pretty easy for me to address, and for the most part, I'm confident that my advice is solid. But I...

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Women are Winning in the Workplace…Kind of...

The Pew Research Center released a report last week under the headline “Breadwinner Moms.” A misleading title in all, they forgot to add "Includin...

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Leona’s Love Quest Part XXIII- Meet Me in St. Louis!...

Greetings from St. Louis! I landed a much better gig than the one I did last summer in Steamboat Springs, Colorado and without the threat of wildfires...

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Why You Hate Giving Help to Poor People (Even Though You Mig...

Why are Americans so seemingly generous on an individual level, but those same Americans who will tithe to their local church lambaste calls to pay hi...

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Will Chirlane McCray Become the First Lady of New York City?...

In 1979 Chirlane Mccray wrote an article in Essence proclaiming herself a black feminist lesbian. In 2013 she's the wife of New York City mayoral cand...

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Matthew Hussey and I Talk “Interracial Awakenings,R...

I'm convinced Matthew and I can not do a video together without bursting out laughing. This is one, you'll like, promise. ;-)...

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On being “black” in Australia and the U.S....

I happened upon this blog a while back. It was originially posted back in 2009 on the blog Cultural Matters by Lisa L. Wynn. Lisa is a white American ...

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Have A Seat, Bigots: No Self-Respecting Swirl-Minded Person ...

To said bigots, I present this empty stadium. It may take you awhile to work your way around. You might have to miss a couple of days of work. There m...

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Stuff I Like: Ole Henricksen Spa, Los Angeles...

Go to any Sephora and you'll see a wall of Ole Henricksen products--all natural, smells delish, and the stuff actually works. But did you know they ha...

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John McCain’s Son Marries a Black Woman. Let’s D...

Sorry to once again blow holes through your "Swirling is not a movement!!" rants, trolls. Wait. I take that back. Instead, I'll say, IN YO' FACE!!! BW...

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Cool Summer Trend– Chambray...

Chambray, the sexier, lighter, more demure sister of denim. Cham-brrray, even her name sort of rolls of your tongue. Chambray is a great fabric to wea...

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Weekend Read: “Mama’s Child”...

Summary: Mama’s Child is story of an idealistic young white woman who travelled to the American South as a civil rights worker, fell in love with an...

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Lonnie’s Friday Funny: The Perils of Online DatingR...

Has this ever happened to you??...

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Let’s Help a BB&W Youngin’ Go Overseas!!...

Let's help a loyal reader realize her dreams!...

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Shawn Carter Scholarship Foundation Scholarship Opportunity ...

Think what you will of Jay Z, but he is providing a wonderful service for deserving students all over America. Please share this information with eve...

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Zoe Saldana and Marco Perego Take Their Relationship Public ...

It looks like Zoe Saldana has thrown her I'm-so-androgynous-I-might- raise-my-future-children-with-a-girlfriend spiel out the window. A few weeks a...

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Stuff I Like: Halo Top Ice Cream…OMG So Yummy and Yes,...

I bet you don't believe that headline, huh? I could hardly believe it either when I was strolling down the ice cream aisle looking for my sugar-free C...

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We’re Number One!! DatingAdvice.com Votes BB&W To...

Which I had a horn so I could toot it......

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QOTW: “Help! I Have a SWIRLING Question!” But...

She says it's a "Swirl" question, but it really isn't......

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My Advice to You…..Consider the Source...

Sometimes its hard to know what to say when dealing with people in general. Of course, we all want to feel like our opinions are valued and we're all ...

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Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way: BB&W Is NOT Just a ...

I think perhaps some of the fans of BB&W don't understand what this site is about. It's not just a swirling club. It's also about (1) improving your c...

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You Aren’t SPECIAL!! Know the Signs of a Dangerous Man...

I am in the process of counseling a friend who has been dating a sociopath. For months this man strung her along, making her feel like there might be ...

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“Men Aren’t Stupid. And Nine Other Free Lessons ...

There is no shortage of relationship books being marketed to women. In such a flooded field, a book that would be worth your time to read needs to mak...

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Swirling Success in Sweden!...

Got this note from "LB", a woman who ditched the naysayers and found her true love. Here's her story, in her words......

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