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09 Aug 14

Swirling and Marriage: 2014 Couple of the Year

Allen and Lynne Lo Introducing the Swirling and Marriage 2014 Couple of the Year.  We see lots of beautiful, swirling couples on this site. Sometime...
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afro, hairstyle, black women's hair, Spring, fashion, personal grooming, blonde, buzz cut, inspiration, dressing, advice, tracy renee jones, personal style, signature look,
06 Aug 14

SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: From Hair to There

I’m tangled,       like the curls of my love’s hair,       like a snake encharmed,     I turn and ...
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04 Aug 14

“Help! My Mother is a Mammy, and Resents My ...

Hey Christelyn!First, I want to say thank you for showing me the light. Your site led me to discover BWE groups all over and has exposed me to the wor...
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04 Aug 14

Man Candy Monday: Big Bald Head and Those With Coi...

I love to run my fingers through a man’s hair, however, sometimes that’s not necessary. Men with bald heads leave nothing to the imaginati...
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03 Aug 14

Blatant Rejection of “Traditional” Loo...

Someone on my You Tube channel sent this video to me, and upon looking at the title, I thought it was just another cuss-filled, vitriolic video about ...
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book, reading, entertainment, interracial relationship, fiction, Tiana Laveen, Smoke and Mirrors,
01 Aug 14

New Interracial Relationship Fiction: “Smoke...

"SEX, BETRAYAL, SURVIVAL & REDEMPTION.....Smoke and Mirrors" is the latest release by literary Interracial and Multicultural Bestselling Author, Tiana...
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KISS, rock band, throwback band, boy crushes, evil, music, albums, heavy metal, devil worship, black girls, teens,
31 Jul 14

TBT: KISS the Devil, Shame Your Parents

I’m nearly still scared to admit how much the sheer sight of these men turned me on. I’d never seen anything like it, and haven’t ye...
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30 Jul 14

New Anti-Swirling Meme: “How Can You Oppose ...

I’ve been seeing the following bit of stupid making its way around the web at an increased clip. The people who are desperate to guilt-trip blac...
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30 Jul 14

SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Looking back on it

She Walks in Beauty She walks in beauty, like the night Of cloudless climes and starry skies; And all that’s best of dark and bright Meet in her...
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reader comments, black men, racist, opinions, criticism, race relations, misogyny , sexism, abuse, exploitation, mules, mammies, push back, pop culture,
22 Jul 14

Reader Letter: Black Woman Married to a Black Man ...

I love it when people finally “get” it. The letter… I pop in on your site from time to time and my feelings about what you are tryin...
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Eric Gardener, NYPD, New York Police Dept, Mayor DeBlasio, police brutality, black fathers, NYPD, violence, fatherless, marriage, family, children, urban america, social issues, community, news, social issues, justice, police brutality,
22 Jul 14

Gotta Say Something Because This is Inexcusable: E...

Many of you know that I draw a hard line on black men in the community who abandon their children en masse and never even think of marrying the volumi...
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21 Jul 14

Have You Seen This Hunk? Nick Bateman Blows Up Fac...

Take a look at this specimen of perfection… So who is he? He’s Nick Bateman. A model, actor, and wanna-be Ninja Turtle that has everyone o...
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roman reigns, Man Candy Monday, dating, non black men, entertainment, sports, biracial, guy crush, hottie, sexy men, eye candy,
20 Jul 14

Man Candy Monday: Wrestling with the Remarkable th...

Oh, you kids are so, so spoiled. I feed you Man Candy each and every Monday, yet you scream for more various and different kinds. It’s like your...
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19 Jul 14

SavageTango tells all: Getting his attention

SavageTango Let me say right off I’ve been down this road on numerous occasions. I’m no stranger to the issues you’ve raised and und...
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