A Botched Attempt at Leaving Blackistan, and Other...

We’re having some really good discussions over on You Tube, and didn’t want you guys to miss it. We’re having some pretty in depth c... READ MORE

More Black Women Need to Practice “Free Agen...

You can say whatever you want about Jennifer Lopez (JLo) and her parade of male companions, but one thing is for certain: she’s a free agent whe... READ MORE

Christelyn’s Big Announcement! Swirling Arou...

This has been a secret I’ve had a really hard time keeping and am really glad I don’t have to anymore! Remember all those conversations yo... READ MORE

Exclusive: Black Woman (Madison Amelia) Who Filmed...

I got a chance to speak with Madison Amelia, the young woman who recorded the viral video of her ex boyfriend’s racist rant about black people a... READ MORE

“Have My Baby?” What You Need to Know ...

When you think about someone in a relationship trapping their partner into a pregnancy, we often think it’s a desperate woman trying to cling to... READ MORE

The Power of Femininity and Donald Trump’s U...

It didn’t take him saying John McCain, a decorated war hero who was a prisoner of war for five year, a loser. It didn’t take for him to ca... READ MORE

Are You Here for Michele’le and Her Side of ...

Lifetime Movie Network will premiere Surviving Compton, a biopic of singer, Michele’le’s experiences being affiliated with NWA and married... READ MORE

Relationship Red Flags…Avoid “Love Bom...

Yesterday, during a private coaching session with a fan who is having some serious relationship issues, I realized she made a major mistake when she c... READ MORE

Black Women, Choose Carefully What Hill You’...

I just received an email notification from Change.org regarding (now) notorious Django Unchained actress, Danielle Watts and her recent activism on th... READ MORE

Sometime You Just Gotta Cry: #BlackGirlTears Event...

Let’s face it. The world reacts a lot differently when one type of does this… And when another looks like this… Don’t believe ... READ MORE

A Note About Fake Friends and Fake Allies

I’m going to be writing this post in general terms, because the people interested in what went down already know the story, so I’ll not po... READ MORE

Wasted Life: Korryn Gaines and Her BLM Death Wish

Monday was another unfortunate (but increasingly regular) event in which mother of two, Korryn Gaines was killed by police officers after a seven hour... READ MORE

Why Aren’t the NBABM Ladies Cheering Us Swir...

There’s been an increase in videos by women who are NBABM (Nothing But a Black Man) complaining that us “swirlers” are trying to FOR... READ MORE

Police Shootings HAVE to Stop, Or the ‘Peace...

Today is my birthday. I woke up to a lovely breeze from the window, quiet, and my husband greeting me with sapphire and diamond earrings. My children ... READ MORE