Dating & Marrying Ethnic Men

Fan Says, “We Need to Be More Vocal of Our Love of Black Women”

A fan asked me to share…

Dear Christelyn,

First of all, let me thank you for all the wonderful work you do. You have opened the eyes of many and hope you continue to do so with our encouragement and support.

Let me introduce myself, my name is Xavier and I am a 22 year old Spanish-American white guy to happens to love black women.
I recently read on your site an article written by Carl dispelling all the myths about white men not wanting black women. It made me realize that we, your male followers, need to step up and be more vocal about our love for black women. So I have decided to speak out and do exactly that.

I have been attracted to black women for as long as I can remember, it has just gotten stronger over the years and now it is a preference for me. Heck! my parents told me once that when I was a baby they could only get me to sleep with Whitney Houston cd’s! so I guess I have loved black women since birth!
Personally I like all types of black women in all shapes, sizes and skin colours, ultimately their personalities is whats going keep my attention on a specific one.
There is nothing that hurts me more that to see some beautiful black women that don’t love themselves or want to be lighter to conform to some stupid standards invented by the media, we love you just how you are. I love all your hairstyles and features and in my opinion other women should be envious of you and not the other way around.
I am proud of my preference and I know a lot of other men think like me too. Some others like black women too but they don’t know it yet!

I want to show you some examples of what beauty looks like to me and many other men. For example:

 I am much more attracted to her …

than her…

 To her more than

   or her more than


 There is just no comparison in my mind!
Those are just a few examples, so ladies please don´t listen to the nonsense. You are beautiful and truly valuable so please find a man that treats you and makes you feel like it.
I just wanted to show you my appreciation for you.
Your ( not so secret) admirer.
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