Gender Conflict

Sigh…The World Knows How Foolish Some Black Women Still Are…

I have preached, teached, and nagged for black women of all ages to embrace this…

Christelyn says_Choose Character Over Color.Go Where You're Celebrated, Not Denigrated.Choose the BEST MAN for the job.Yet, some of ya'll still begging.


Now before you watch the following video, I want you to understand that this is a setup. There’s a show on the produced by the same company who made, Married At First Sight, that producing a new show called, #BlackLove. This is yet ANOTHER show to exploit the desperation and single hood of black women, and their unending (and often embarrassing) resistance to date ONLY a black man. Meanwhile, the same black men they’re BEGGING to love and marry them are saying this:

Here is the cast of #BlackLove



This is sooooo typical. YAWN. Beautiful black woman, accomplished, wants her IBM so bad she’ll humiliate herself on national television; still still saying “No white boys!!”; and the black men still keep dating and marrying ‘Becky’ and these women’s ovaries will shrivel and their New York apartments will be full of cats or fatherless kids, after all we have a 73% out-of-wedlock rate and  by their time they join AARP. Nothing new to see here. This is Essence circa, since forever.

Be glad the you ladies, have gotten off this humiliating hamster wheel, and are going where you are loved, cherished and regarded with respect, regardless of the color of the man.

And for all you nosy nothing-but-a-brotha women peeping this post cuz you know I’m talking about you, go pick up my book, Swirling: How to Date, Mate & Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed on the sly. Make sure the black dude who live in the next apartment dating ‘Becky’ doesn’t see, though…

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