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One Man Found Guilty of Not Disclosing HIV Status,...

Consider this post a friendly public service announcement about the importance of safe sex. It’s not just high schoolers who need this message. ...
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Toni: Desirable educated black women who don’...

I find it absolutely hilarious that we get black woman after black woman writing all these open letters and blog posts about how they only want a blac...
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QOTW: Black Woman Wonders About Interracial Dating...

The Letter… Hi Christelyn, I came across the BB&W website chance through a FB friends repost of a picture from the Interracial Dating Centra...
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Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen&...

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen” Black Men, Hello, how are things? Is the new year off to a good start? I hope so. ūüôā I see ...
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QOTW: “Is My Long-Distance Relationship a Bi...

I received this note from a reader a few weeks ago: “I am a single parent of twin seven year old boys and I live in Trinidad. I have known my fr...
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Feast Your Eyes Friday: Danai Gurira Is a Beautifu...

With skin the tone of dark chocolate and a smile that radiates quiet confidence how can you not be enthralled by the lovely Danai Jekesai Gurira? I o...
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Man Candy Monday: Colin Kaepernick Can Tackle Me A...

They say you a girl looks for the type of man that reminds her of her father. Well, my father Big Jessie was, big, standing at 6’2 so tall men h...
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Being Discerning versus Being Judgemental

Being Discerning This is sort of a rambling post. I just read an excellent article on Psychology Today called “Don’t be Judgemental, Be Di...
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Makeup By Monae: Quick Hair and Makeup Look

If only we all had the time to make ourselves look like the hottest celeb on TV, but that isn’t realistic. ¬†I’m here to help those of us ...
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Man Candy Monday: Danell Leyva’s Naked Body ...

There is something about a man’s body that I just can’t deny. The lines of his shoulders, the width of his waist, the way his calf muscles...
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Studies (and experience) Show Black Men Benefit an...

In two separate studies, Megan Holland and  Simone Ipsa-Landa examined the experiences of Black boys and girls who participated in diversity program...
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Man Candy Monday: Who Said Indian Men Ain’t ...

Okay, to show you all just how shallow one needs to be in order to identify, process and discard men, I give you Exhibit A. Upen Patel is a hot, gorge...
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Black Male Celebrities Are Dating and Marrying Int...

I was going through a recent slideshow on Huffington Post of all of the celebrity marriages so far in 2013 (watch the slide show because you will not...
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Wear It Well Wednesday: Animal Prints and You̷...

Now that we’ve got the hang of wearing clothing made to get you seen I think it’s high time to push the envelope a little bit. What’...
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