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QOTW: “Am I Wrong If I Choose to Never Date ...

I just got this note from a fan of the blog and fan page: I have a question for you Christelyn as well as the other group members who are doing the sw...
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Hilarious Bedsider PSA’s Addresses the Birth...

I was up at the wee hours of the morning last night and saw this commercial… This is brilliant, and I wish it could be shown on the television m...
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A Sister Reacts to Accusation of Race Betrayal

I was given permission by L. B. Kelle to share a recent experience she had.  Now I know the loyal readers of BBW would have some choice words to say...
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My Big Announcement…

I’ve been hinting about this for a while, and I guess I could tell you, but it’s probably better to just show you…   So what is it?...
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My True Confession: I Advocate Swirling Because I ...

A very strange and angry black man called Sergeant Willie Pete is enraged by me. He’s enraged because he took a comment I said in a You Tube vid...
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One Man Found Guilty of Not Disclosing HIV Status,...

Consider this post a friendly public service announcement about the importance of safe sex. It’s not just high schoolers who need this message. ...
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Toni: Desirable educated black women who don’...

I find it absolutely hilarious that we get black woman after black woman writing all these open letters and blog posts about how they only want a blac...
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QOTW: Black Woman Wonders About Interracial Dating...

The Letter… Hi Christelyn, I came across the BB&W website chance through a FB friends repost of a picture from the Interracial Dating Centra...
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Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen&...

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen” Black Men, Hello, how are things? Is the new year off to a good start? I hope so. 🙂 I see ...
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QOTW: “Is My Long-Distance Relationship a Bi...

I received this note from a reader a few weeks ago: “I am a single parent of twin seven year old boys and I live in Trinidad. I have known my fr...
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Feast Your Eyes Friday: Danai Gurira Is a Beautifu...

With skin the tone of dark chocolate and a smile that radiates quiet confidence how can you not be enthralled by the lovely Danai Jekesai Gurira? I o...
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Man Candy Monday: Colin Kaepernick Can Tackle Me A...

They say you a girl looks for the type of man that reminds her of her father. Well, my father Big Jessie was, big, standing at 6’2 so tall men h...
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Being Discerning versus Being Judgemental

Being Discerning This is sort of a rambling post. I just read an excellent article on Psychology Today called “Don’t be Judgemental, Be Di...
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Makeup By Monae: Quick Hair and Makeup Look

If only we all had the time to make ourselves look like the hottest celeb on TV, but that isn’t realistic.  I’m here to help those of us ...
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