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“A Beautiful Burden” One Man’s C...

By “Zac Onbothsides”   Ok. We’ve established that there’s an attraction, we’ve even talked about the awkwardness of expressing ...
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Man Candy Monday: Hollywood Hotties Then, and Now

What’s the saying again, “Something old, something new. Something Man Candy, just for you?” Age ain’t nothing but a number whe...
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Man Candy Monday/Tuesday: “Kilt” With ...

I hope you all are enjoying the warm weather we’re having. Me, I’m out and about keeping my eyes open for candy and potential new dates, a...
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Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit Ha...

This photo and subsequent caption came along my Facebook feed, and not the first time–I’ve seen lots of propaganda of late advocating poly...
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Robin Thicke and His Very Public Attempt to Win Ba...

Robin Thicke is really, really, really serious about winning back his humiliated wife, Paula Patton with this new video, “Get You Back,” a...
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Man Candy Monday: Men in Uniform to Service You

I know, I know, I know. You wanted a Man Candy bag filled to the brim with MEN IN UNIFORM, and after much toiling and investigating I’m pleased ...
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Are You Going to the NYC Loving Day Celebration or...

I’ll be attending the 11th annual Loving Day celebration in New York City this coming Saturday. I hope to see some our regular readers there sin...
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Man Candy Monday: Enough to Share, Sexy Twins For ...

You ever been somewhere and seen a hot guy? Then as you gaze another hot guy shows up, and then you do a double take as you realize the hot guys are T...
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Study Says Unexpected Cosmetic Really Does Make Wo...

You fluff your ‘fro, powder your nose, and put on that last layer of lip gloss before you give yourself a final once over. Add the earrings, sho...
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QOTW: White Woman Asks, “How Can I Get My Fa...

While this question is from a white woman dating a black man, the advice is universal for all interracial combinations. We dedicate an entire chapter ...
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“Swirlr” Series Finale…Think It&...

There’s a bunch of twists and turns in this one. Take a look and let’s discus!...
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Man Candy Monday: You Nasty Boy, You Nasty…&...

They say, “Cleanliness is next to Godliness” but who wants to involve thoughts of the Pearly Gates at this leg of the race? Gym rats, athl...
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Why Do Some Black Women Think I’m Trying to ...

So…I’ve made it my business to really cease and desist addressing folks that take cheap shots at me, my work, and this site. They can stea...
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The Great Debate Between Me and Matthew Hussey: Sh...

Subjects for the Question of the Week often come in themes. Lately I’ve gotten a lot of questions for men and women conflicted about starting wo...
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